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Managing thoughts of suicide & self-harm

Feeling better idk why

ImkaiSenior Contributor

Feeling better idk why

@Ru-bee @tyme @Jynx thanks you guys for chatting with me I feel a lot better now even when the week is not over, still the possibility of her and him uploading the images but I don't know why I just feel a lot better after discussing it with you lot I still haven't told anyone in face and I would like to keep it that way. The only thing that I'm scared about now is if all my friends send me it not so much my family know now but my mates. So that's the only thing I'm scared of now is someone sending it.back to me. But I still feel a lot better. Looking for a job still. I think it's because I have done everything I can do so last time thanks for helping me may you guys or girls have a great life ahead.

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tymeModerator

Re: Feeling better idk why

It's just to get money. One thing you know about scams is that they always want everything done quick quick. This is so that you don't have time to think about it.

Have you cut off all contact from the person now? @Imkai

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ImkaiSenior Contributor

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@tyme it's like I said towards the start I have done everything I can possibly do besides uninstalling all accounts and emails I have made contact with police so they know a bit well at least a phone call from me I have used sites like idcare and others like it. I just want to know because if I do get in trouble I'm 18 so if I go to court it will not be private.

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ImkaiSenior Contributor

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@tyme is there a way to message cops? Like inform them because I don't want to call tonight I'll do it tomorrow in the afternoon away from my family.

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tymeModerator

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When you first went to the police, did you get the cop's name and email? @Imkai

I generally email. You can't message them unless they have messaged you first.

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ImkaiSenior Contributor

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I might get a call tonight wow by idcare or an email

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ImkaiSenior Contributor

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@tyme I didn't give them my email but they do have my home location and first and last name

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ImkaiSenior Contributor

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@tyme @Damn getting myself all scared again look at the screenshots i too

 main threat they sent I don't know how to take this reading it clearly because I have blocked him and nothing has been posted but I also pleaded to give me a week so I don't know now. At least I'm drinking tonight.

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Ru-beeModerator

Re: Feeling better idk why

Hey @Imkai

Just try to remember that if someone is trying to scam you they 1. want you to do things quickly as @tyme mentioned, so that you don't have time to stop and think about it 2. benefit from scared into action, and scared to reach out to the police.

It's a really intense situation to find yourself in, but it sounds like you've taken all the right steps so far. I'd just be mindful about drinking when you're feeling this stressed too, it can be a way to switch off from everything but it can also backfire and make us feel worse.

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tymeModerator

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@Imkai , take it to the police station and ask them what you should do.

The longer you converse with them, the longer they will drag this out for.

Do not plead with them for anything. The only reason you would keep conversing is for police to track them.

Please... go to the police, show them and ask them what to do. You do NOT need to be the puppet of scammers.

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tymeModerator

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Just checking in with you @Imkai . Are you okay?

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