OaktreeSenior Contributor
Discussion with Arra
@ArraDreaming
Here is a thread where we can have a chat about things.
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Discussion with Arra
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OaktreeSenior Contributor
Re: Discussion with Arra
@ArraDreaming
There was definitely something in the wind yesterday and you really did cop it in the neck. Glad to hear that you a feeling better today.
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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I haven’t heard from my sister @Oaktree
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OaktreeSenior Contributor
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@ArraDreaming
You may not hear from her for a while
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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When she needs something @tyme
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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I mean @Oaktree
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OaktreeSenior Contributor
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@ArraDreaming
Probably, try and do whatever is right for you if she does come looking for something. You don’t want to regret things later. Like if you give her money. Give it to her and don’t expect it back, that way you are not hurt if she doesn’t pay you back. My family are like that. They lend money and never pay it back. I have decided that I don’t give them money anymore.
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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We have given her money we couldn’t afford to give away because she’s a 20 year old single mother on her own without a job, @Oaktree, you know because we care… never got it back, we give her baby toys and clothes, frozen meals…
I don’t do these things for a thank you but every now and then it would be nice,
I don’t do these things for a thank you but every now and then it would be nice,
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OaktreeSenior Contributor
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@ArraDreaming
Now I see why you were so upset.
That’s a bit of a kick in the teeth after you have tried so hard to help her out
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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I have raised her, I would rock her to sleep when I was a little kid, @Oaktree
Only for to turn into an adult who demands things from me, and makes comments about things that she knows really hurt
Only for to turn into an adult who demands things from me, and makes comments about things that she knows really hurt
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OaktreeSenior Contributor
Re: Discussion with Arra
@ArraDreaming
She is immature and entitled. You need to wait a few years until her brain is fully developed. She will come good
