Am Not Coping

Yes, it involves re-establishing oersonal boundaries @Nay69 ...... I didn’t have to do that much before this illness triggered in its current form and environment, but that is another big, wide story there ......

Sounds lovely @Zoe7 😊

Yes, baby dragon wanted to share YouTube clips with me. I was telling her about Cat, and she found the meme for me .... 😊

Its sunny here today. I have D2 with me for a library visit .... different library this time, and it will tie in with a uni assignment ..... and then going shopping with D3 to set up materials in the art room that are more specific to her interests and working style.

Thank b.d. for the meme then @Faith-and-Hope I loved it

Sounds like you have a nice afternoon planned Hon. You have made my afternoon by just seeing you here Your niece is outside in the garden - she loves sitting in the sun. I'll give her a hug for you when she comes in

Toby is snuggled up on the doona on the couch - but will move as soon as I do - he really is my shadow He was such a good boy yesterday when we went to the beach - he had a run and then played in the water and sand. When we went back to my sister and friend he stayed on the grass until it was time to leave. Now I just need to train him to come when I call him lol

I might go now and see how much I can get done now that I have a little more energy - will check in with you later Hon - I hope D3 gets everything she needs and you both enjoy your afternoon. Thank D2 for the meme and say hi to D3 from me too. 💜💜💜

@Faith-and-Hope I managed to weed most of the backyard garden this afternoon. Tomorrow I need to dig out a few bigger weeds and cut back some smaller branches on a few trees. Then I can head to Bunnings and see what plants they have to buy. I can plant them as soon as I come home (if I have the energy). The side patch will have to wait until later in the week as there is quite a lot of things that need to be moved to do that patch.

My sister came around with her dog this afternoon too. I managed to get my finger in his way when he was grabbing for the ball - no serious damage - more a graze than a bite - have cleaned, disinfected and covered it so it should be right.

IWill get dinner organised soon and then settle in for the night.

Hope you got to the library ok, D3 got everything she wanted at the art store and you both had a good afternoon.

very true @Nay69 , bit by bit my friend xx

Hello @Zoe7, @BlueBay, @Faith-and-Hope, @outlander

had my step D1 spend the night here , lovely to see her and to have a good talk , she misses her dad sooo much , so it was good to see them spend time together , but not long enough , next flying visit will be at the end of the month

my mum has been home for a week , thinking she might have to go back to the hospital soon

Lovely to have your step D1 there for the night @Shaz51 and extra nice that Mr Shaz got some quality time with her. A month seems a long time but it will go quickly Hon.

I hope your mum doesn't have to go back to hospital but if she needs extra care then that is the place she needs to be. Sending you huge hugs @Shaz51

me too @Zoe7, and she gets well cared for in hospital , mum is already packing a bag just in case it is this week coming xx

At least she will be prepared @Shaz51

Are you seeing your mum tomorrow?

Hello @Nay69 I don't think we've met. What you said is exactly what I needed to hear. Thanks.

Why do they think that they can take full control and leave you feeling so empty emotionally.
Time to take back what is and has always been ours... ourselves ❤️💐

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yes @Zoe7 xx

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