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WeasleyGirlNew Contributor
Hi, my names Aria and I have been having mental breakdowns in the past 8 weeks. I feel like I don’t fit in at school, i’m not a popular kid or a sport or smart kid. I’m that one girl no one wants to sit near. I want to know how to fit in better. If anyone can help I would much appreciate it.
Thx 💚
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MJG017Senior Contributor
Hi @WeasleyGirl, welcome to the group. I never fit in in school either so I know what that's like. I just tried to find other kids I fit in with if I could.
Just to let you know, we don't use our real names here for privacy purposes, so you may want to edit that out. An admin will do it when they see it before too long. Also, you say you're in school, so can I assume you're under 18? It's just that something like Kid's helpline (1800 55 1800) may be more helpful for you. I know the name can sound like it's just for children but it's for teens and young adults as well and so you may find the advice there much more helpful for you.
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Hi @WeasleyGirl
I suddenly had a flash back to my school days. I wasn't popular either and that pressure to be outstanding in everything is very overwhelming, and very unrealistic. Perhaps you can be just a lovely person who listens and shows empathy to your fellow students. I would have loved a friend like that.
Definitely ring the Kids Helpline or just start by checking out their website. Don't feel embarressed as I often ring helplines when I'm feeling really sad and lonely. I always burst into tears so keep some tissues handy. If you feel comfortable, talk to your parents or a relative. Do you have any sisters? Perhaps they could look into some after hour/weekend social activities in your local community. Even check out your local library.
Hang in there Aria. 🐱
Ravencroft 🌻
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MJG017Senior Contributor
@Former-Member
I suddenly had a flash back to my school days. I wasn't popular either and that pressure to be outstanding in everything is very overwhelming, and very unrealistic. Perhaps you can be just a lovely person who listens and shows empathy to your fellow students. I would have loved a friend like that.
Yeah, it was a lot of pressure! I would have loved a friend like that as well. Our school was like Lord of the Flies on asphalt!
One thing I would add @WeasleyGirl is that school doesn't last forever and things change so much the second it ends and all the childish stuff in the school yard is gone. So I know exactly how difficult it is, but try not to let it get you down too much... things will change.
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