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Family separation

Family separation

Hi it's been a tough fathers day for me second year without hearing from my adult kids after the nasty marriage breakdown and divorce involving domestic violence against me by my ex wife. I am very down because l care and think about my kids every day and l have a granddaughter that l haven't seen for 2 years also. I feel my ex wife is controlling the kids having turned them against.me .I worry about my granddaughter growing up without her grandfather because my daughter is too selfish to allow her to see me. I have never hurt anyone but l feel like l am.such a bad dad and l hate to think what crap my granddaughter is being told.It takes away meaning to my life. I doubt the situation will ever improve. Why why do people still hurt me???

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@Jynx

I don't feel like doing anything 😞 😞

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Yeah that's it hey @Leeanne1 the times when we feel the worst, when we need the self-soothing the most, is when we have the least motivation to do it. It does still help though, even if we resent the process!

I'm gonna be hopping off soon hun, please be gentle and kind with yourself, and keep reaching out ok? We are here for you 💜

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@Jynx

Ok I will ❤️

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Re: Father in law

My father in law just passed away 😢

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Re: Father in law

Is there anyone online 😞 😞

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Re: Father in law

My father in law passed away today I need to talk

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Oh gosh @Leeanne1 I am so sorry to hear that, my condolences. Big hugs for you hun, such a difficult time for you hey 💜

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@Jynx

Yes I'm feeling sick because I have to face my children again

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@Leeanne1 aye that would be so intense!! When will you see them?

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@Jynx

No idea

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