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Newbie's Social Club - Come make some friends!

Newbie's Social Club - Come make some friends!

Hey Forumites!!

This is a space for members new and old, to gather around and help make our newer members feel welcome!

We've all been newbies ourselves at some point, and can empathise with how incredibly daunting it can be entering a new space. A lot of folks have trouble even knowing where to start, and (even though we're in the midst of improving it all) we know the forums can be a tricky space to navigate - which can make it very difficult for newbies to be able to find their footing! On top of that, joining any established community means being 'the new kid on the block', and seeing others connecting easily with established relationships can sometimes feel like we aren't welcome, or that we need to 'break in' to the conversation somehow.

Well this space aims to alleviate that pressure and help facilitate some new connections! Whether you're brand new here or you've been here since the very beginning, you're welcome to come hang out, meet some new people, reconnect with others, and maybe even make a new friend!

We will try to tag new members as they join, so help us make them feel welcome!

Here's today's newest forumites:

@noodles1

@IndigOverwhelm

@Sam63

@Sosad01

@jsbpd

@JJll

@Andora

@riotgrrl

@HopeEverlasting

@Bellle

Feel free to tell us a little about yourself, what brought you to the forums, and what you're looking for here!

Tagging in our lovely bunch of Community Guides too! They're seasoned members who volunteer their time and energy towards making the forums a safe and welcoming place for everyone. We wouldn't have the community we do without their efforts and their passion! Feel free to reach out to them, they're always quite happy to help guide and support 😊

@Anastasia @BPDSurvivor @Eve7 @Faith-and-Hope @MDT @Judi9877 @outlander @Shaz51 @Snowie @wellwellwellnez @Zoe7

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@JJll , good to meet you. Wishing you the best with finding the help you need. Have you had any success? I was diagnosed with anxiety/depression for the first time around 6 years ago. The first thing I needed was medication because I was not capable of doing anything initially. I felt paralysed, I was constantly ruminating and was not sleeping. Once I worked out which medication was right for me and its effect kicked in, then I was then able to start working on myself. The things that have helped me have been restorative yoga, sitting in the sun, breathing exercises, walking, and spending time doing things that I enjoy. Having said that, I am suffering another bout now, which is why I have joined this forum to seek support.

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Welcome tot he forums @1078 !

Sorry to hear you are struggling with anxiety/depression.

Besides medication, do you remember anything else that may have been helpful for you?

You are not alone. Hope to hear from you soon.

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Hi @tyme, thanks for your message. I am clinging on to my routine of getting up, having a shower, walking my dog and having breakfast but the day thereafter is a struggle. I just want to go and lie down again after that. I think it is at least partly because I have increased my medication and it is making me drowsy. I need to get used to it.

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@Ru-bee @Shaz51

Love the tip! thank you 🙂

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Hey people,

Thank you for inviting me to join the forum, I'm very new to this site so not entirely sure what to do ahah.

I'll try to keep it short and sweet. I'm a 28 y/o (F), diagnosed with ADHD, BPD, Anxiety and depression. I'm looking to meet people who know what it's like to live with these mental illnesses and the daily struggles they bring. I struggle a lot when it comes to meeting new people and making new friends due to the social Anxiety of it all. Hopefully it'll be easier here, especially with people who actually understand.

Anyways, I hope to hear from some of you soon! 🙂

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Hi everyone,

Just a quick note about myself. I am a mum and a carer of a 17 year old son who has been diagnosed with bipolar 1.
I am here because I am lonely and scared and I want to be able to connect with other parents who are caring for their child. I would like to feel less alone.

More than anything, I would like to hear some positive experiences of people living with bipolar 1 because I need to cultivate hope and positivity to help me come to a place of acceptance. I want my son to be ok and for a while I thought that meant not having this illness. Now I realise there’s nothing I can do to take it away - so I want to focus on how I can help him be ok and be someone who is living with BP1.
Thank you for reading.

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Hi 👋🏼 @TiredandScared my friend had the same experience 2 years ago. Her son was 17 then.

It was a bumpy 2 years for her and him. Finding the right medication and the right dose.

As soon as he started reading books about his condition he became very relieved and felt validated. He wasn’t alone.

Sharing the information with his mother made both of them happy.

G

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hello @TiredandScared , @Vayle , @lighthouse22 , @Alittleorange , @1078 @Glisten , @RiverSeal

how is everyone going this sunday 😍

it is sunny here today and very quiet

cuppa time here @RiverSeal , how are you going xx

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Hey @Shaz51 I'm pretty good thank you! Cuppa time here too 🙂 RiverSeal

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Hey @Shaz51,

Having a hard time today.lots of bpd splitting and depression keeps flaring up. Just wish I had more support where I am. It's so isolating here...
Struggling but still trying.
-Vayle
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