Carers Hints and tips to Success

hugs to you too sister @outlander

Thanks @Shaz51.

Sorry for the late reply. Have been laying low for a few weeks. This is exactly how I have been feeling. Guilty. I have been reading about BPD and I have been feeling guilty. For every time I haven't been the perfect mother. For not leaving C's Dad when C was younger knowing he was not stable and not providing a stable environment. For not addressing issues C may have had at school when he was younger. Guilty about not being able to fix it for him.

We are actually have a pretty good week. Things are stable and I am hoping it stays that way for a while.

How is everyon else doing?

Hello @Sharonm xx

feeling. Guilty, i know I fetl that with my mum , i feel I should be looking after her more , but it is better to look ahead my friend , not behind us == what we do today and tomorrow is what is important my awesome friend , I am glad things are stable

keep in touch my friend , we are here for you

these are great @Shaz51

Hello @Littletink_, , how are you today , this is the thread i spoke about last night

Hello @Oby46

this is the thread I was talking about , there are some good suggestions and if you have any suggestions to share please add them

I haven't read all of the posts but I have been going through a page or two each night. Lots of great suggestions. I think the only thing I could add is learn to be resilient and ignore the many well-meaning but unhelpful people who don't understand MI. Thankfully we have forums like this with professional moderators and experienced contributors.