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I am finding it really hard to cope my whole family have walked away from me and now my daughter has taken the grandchildren away from me I feel so lost I don't know what I have done to deserve this I love them all deeply and would never disrespect or hurt them I live alone with my 2 little dogs feels so surreal that this has been happening to me I have been my mother and sisters scape goat all my life I had to walk away from my mother to save myself not to hurt her now every one has walked away from me I am devastated a lifetime of trauma from my mother she even hurts me from a far
It's so sad when our mothers don't love us I would not wish that pain on anyone but it's sort of comforting to know that a lot of other people are going through the same thing and that you're not alone
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