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Best Friends Club

Best Friends Club

A lot of us are looking for more friends and a place where we can feel safe and accepted. This is that place. Please feel free to introduce yourselves and tag more people here.

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@MJG017 I can't say the day got better... I got told how to recover from another trauma survivor... felt judged, not far enough and I couldn't get a word in edge ways... I didn't need guidance in my recovery I was looking for support with the police...

And to add insult to injury she told me the church was right to tell me to use my redress to pay for accommodation when I was homeless...

I just feel hurt, misunderstood and more alone than I expected...

It was meant to be a meet and greet and all I got was a lecture...

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@avant-garde oh that sounds horrible. I'm sorry you had to experience that. I hate when you need support but instead you get judged and get a lecture.

Know that you aren't alone here and we are always here to listen and support you. Sending you big hugs ❤️.

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@avant-garde

I'm sorry you had to deal with all of that. Some people just don't see outside of their own experiences and think the have the answers for everyone. Its clear why you would feel the way you do about it all, and completely unhelpful and unfair on you. It just shows a complete lack of understanding all round with the redress. It's definitely not the sort of thing you expect at a meet and greet.

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Coping feels out of my wheelhouse right now

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Hi @PeppyPatti @avant-garde @MJG017 @Shaz51 @Former-Member @TAB @Clawde I hope today has been kind to you 💖

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Hello @creative_writer. My day has been somewhat ok.

How are you going?

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Somewhat okay here as well @creative_writer thx for the tag.

RSL reach out rang and during call offered me housecleaning .I said thanks but no thanks. Apparently new Dr in next town who knows their way around DVA @Oaktree

Got told to book an appt

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@TAB

Oh good Tab

That may be good news!

Finally a doctor that can use your DVA supports. Please let me know how you get on…

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I wasn't expecting the call. Person who rang was very enthusiastic. I could at least get free gym and weight loss treatment maybe 😅 lol @Oaktree

Am going to request my complete records and get someone to go over things

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@Former-Member I feel a bit detached. I’m very exhausted, it’s been a warm day in Melbourne. I’m just relaxing right now with a hydrating face mask.

Have you both been up to much today @Former-Member @TAB
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