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@Former-Member I understand how overwhelming it can feel after leaving the hospital. Taking things one day at a time is definitely the way to go

With little steps

And please don't say that about yourself..... You're stronger than you realize
I'm dealing with some things myself......., but I wanted to say hi to you....

It took lots of strength for you to reach out.

Sane forums helps me a lot.

@rav3n if only that was possible.

I've tried everything but nothing seems to work and things just keep building up.

It's just exhausting having to constantly fight to stay in control and to not just explode. I'm broken and I'm not sure if I'm able to fix myself or to be fixed.

@Jynx there's a reason I don't bother eating sometimes.

Yeah it was definitely a good old classic. I wasn't allowed to watch the Simpson's growing up, I did watch everybody loves Raymond but never watched charmed.

@PeppyPatti thanks. Always here for you if you need/want to chat aswell. I'm always one for helping other people with their problems cos I can't fix my own.

@Former-Member you don't have to have all the answer right at this moment. you are human, we're imperfect creatures!! the process is fast for some, slow for others, either way it doesn't mean you're broken or never getting better.

it's okay to feel exhausted, your feelings are valid. but like all emotions, this feeling will pass too. take your time, go at your pace.

@rav3n but I don't want it to be like this. I'm trying so hard to just keep pushing through but i don't even know why anymore. Like why do I bother trying when I just have nothing live for. How am i supposed to get better when I can't even get help to do so. Sorry I'm just really frustrated and it's just all too much for me.

I just got married !!

I'm glad my messages helped.
I'm going through some challenging things with my ex-husband right now. It's a difficult situation, but I'm trying to take things one day at a time.
How are you feeling today?

No problems though .....

I think @rav3n

Will agree that this is something everyone and. Moderators and help you with.

It takes little steps......

If you want ....

.It sounds like you're feeling incredibly overwhelmed and hopeless right now. It's okay to feel this way,

We all need to take little steps while we feel like this

It's understandable to feel like giving up when things feel so difficult. But please

Know, right here at Sane forums, some of us have this also happening in our lives.

We care.

You mentioned that you can't seem to get the help you need.

I think if you see your doctor Gp they can get you to see councillor free of charge 10 sessions.

Maybe, if you talk about your how you feel
Sometimes, just talking to someone can make a difference.

You are strong.

You reached out

that's okay @Former-Member you don't have to apologise to me! when i've been in my dark place, the longer i was in it, the more i found it hard to stay positive or hopeful. it's so much harder to see the good things and 'bigger picture' when we've been stuck in that dark place for so long. but when i eventually did start getting better, everything was much clearer and i was grateful for having pushed through. so right now, maybe you don't see the point or it feels like its too much, but you are stronger than you think. and you'll see the bigger picture soon.

do you have a psych/therapist/professional that you can talk to? if not, how do you feel about getting a referral for one?

@rav3n the last psychologist i saw told me that I was a lost cause. The only person I have is my gp and there's only so much they can do.