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What I have done to you

ArraDreamingSenior Contributor05 July 2024, 5:00 pm AEST

What I have done to you

Edited - might as well just ask this as an open forum air your grievances about me here… let me know what I done to upset you just be open

I try to make friends never can

try to talk to people on here, not many people talk to me back (thanks for ppl that do)

I’m trying to be social and get nothing sometimes

Is it me?

Is there a problem with my personality

have I done something wrong

people always say it’s not you maybe they arent the right fit well how come that happens with every person then

I got no friggen mates

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In response to: What I have done to you

Ru-beeModerator05 July 2024, 5:13 pm AEST

Re: Do people just not want to talk to me at all, what’s the deal

Hey @ArraDreaming

It's so awesome the way you provide support and reach out to others on the forums. I get it can be frustrating when you don't get a response. I can't speak to why that is, I don't know, but I do know that you're such a great presence here.

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Captain24Senior Contributor05 July 2024, 5:24 pm AEST

Re: Do people just not want to talk to me at all, what’s the deal

You actually said some pretty hurtful stuff, especially about something you had no idea about. I was really hurt and it lead to some not so healthy choices.

So no.. I’m not ready to talk to you just yet. Give me some time and I’ll come to you

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor05 July 2024, 5:29 pm AEST

Re: Do people just not want to talk to me at all, what’s the deal

Your choices are your own, not mine. I can’t be blamed for choices you made as a result of feeling hurt.
@Captain24I was up front because someone needed to be. What do you mean I had no idea

… I could see it front of me. Anyway if you felt this post was directed at you so be it but it wasn’t it was in general not just here, I was talking about offline too, Everyone.

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor05 July 2024, 5:32 pm AEST

Re: Do people just not want to talk to me at all, what’s the deal

It’s not just here @Ru-bee it’s like bloody everywhere all the time how hard is to have friggen friends

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor05 July 2024, 5:36 pm AEST

Re: Do people just not want to talk to me at all, what’s the deal

cause in just a loser

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Ru-beeModerator05 July 2024, 5:38 pm AEST

Re: Do people just not want to talk to me at all, what’s the deal

Forming and maintaining friendships as an adult is bloody rough @ArraDreaming

Everyone gets so wrapped up in their own little lives. I look at people who have really active social lives and big networks of friends and I honestly don't know how they do it

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor05 July 2024, 5:44 pm AEST

Re: Do people just not want to talk to me at all, what’s the deal

Well I got none @Ru-bee

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StoutSenior Contributor05 July 2024, 5:49 pm AEST

Re: Do people just not want to talk to me at all, what’s the deal

@ArraDreaming

I'm being cautious as I think I can be. As one might guess. I'm not snobbing mate.

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor05 July 2024, 5:54 pm AEST

Re: Do people just not want to talk to me at all, what’s the deal

Got it @Stout

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Ru-beeModerator05 July 2024, 5:55 pm AEST

Re: Do people just not want to talk to me at all, what’s the deal

That's really rough @ArraDreaming

Are there any opportunities for socialising at work? I know it's generally more of an individual job but do you get to chat with the staff there?

I'm going to be finishing up soon so if I'm not able to reply tonight I'll be around next week

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