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My living hell

My living hell

Has any man been through child alienation, false accusations governed together with trying to medicate my son with adhd medication [edited by moderator] and taking me to court for full parental responsinilty. Bottom line id peadeatrician wrote a report my son has.no adhd. My son has great report.cards, his teacher is.very proud of.him. His mother was sending him to school with choc in his lunchbox and he was getting all hypo and.getting in trouble with school. I have since.stopped this for him and he has excelled. I just need.to help understand what to do anymore, just sick of all the lies and getting talked.down to like an.idiot at court. Dont know.what else to do have been speaking to female.psychologist all year but yesterday ahe said i should see a psychiatrist. I told her no, i know i dont need one and will be used against me at court speaking out. I feel she has been a little bias and has actually defended my ex wife on a.cpl of ocassions who she doesnt know from a bar of.soap. Waiting to go to trial and has been quite.gut wrenching. 2.bad family reports writing all this persons lies down for.her. Men are having kids torn away from them all the time. 7 men suicide a day over child.alienation but have been silenced. Anybody got.any good outcome.stories or help in right direction, i have been going throug nad anxiety since.the last 3 years. Absolutely horrible system and family court writers need re.educating and stop believing lies. Feel horrible.all the time feel useless and breaks my heart my son has.has to go throuilgh all this. Am still gettimg taken to trial for not.medicating and being accused of.coervice control because i wont agree. Dealing with full narcissist. thanks

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Hey @geeman ,

I'm sorry to hear how hard things are at the moment for you. I hear the struggles.

I personally do not have any experience in this area, but I can hear the 'hell' you are going through.

What supports do you have in place for yourself?

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I have been talling with female psychologist who i feel is bias because its better for women to stick up for each other no matter what has happened. Thats what im up against. Whole family court process all bias woman, absolutely pathetic circus. Why would i medicate my son when he doesnt nneed it and also peadatrician also said so but everyone involved including judge totally ignore any of my concerns or my viewpoint, its blatant gender bias wiping out fathers for controlling, lieing manipulating womans lies. You would hope a mother would not do this to her own child, even worse that other women enable this behaviour because they stick up for each other no matter what the lie. Thats my support. I have met nobody in 3 years that care about my concerns, purely because i am a male.

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Hi geeman,

I'm very sorry to hear about what you're going through, I can't imagine how difficult going through this court process must be.

I understand that you're not feeling heard by your current supports and I'm wondering if Mensline might be a positive additional support for you to help you to get through this time. They provide free mental health support specifically for men and offer phone support as well as video call or webchat options, so you can talk to them in a way that's most comfortable for you.

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