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Destiny

Hi @tyme ,

I would like to know more about destiny. I hadn’t really been in tune with my feelings, but when you mentioned about destiny things became came clear in my mind and my focus on the positive improved a lot. The one thing I wanted to ask was what if the destiny I am focussed on isn’t the same for her and she has other ideas. Were we really on the same page? I thought so, but then thought we weren’t. Is it ok to put all my heart into an outcome that I don’t know would be the same for her?

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@Rockdog wrote:

My hiccup was a lesson and I do feel that messing that up was practice for the future.

Hey @Rockdog ,

I feel that everything that happens is to teach us something - good or bad. I think having this mindset is what helps use get through, especially when things are tough.

I think this aligns with the Radical Acceptance theory.

Keep doing what you are doing. You have come such a long way.

How's your work going? Are you still doing that volunteer role?

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Hey @tyme ,

Hope your Easter is going well. I am trying to progress but my latest lesson was a tough one. I was like a really bad dream. I’m not sure what radical acceptance theory is, but I have a lot of trouble accepting things. Not sure if I mentioned but my placement finished. That gas left me with a lack of purpose.

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@Rockdog

Google Radical Acceptance by Marcia Lineman

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Thanks @Oaktree ,

I will have a look

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After placement, where to from here? @Rockdog

Is your course finished? Do you feel that is YOUR career? Or not really.

I've been on leave so I didn't respond earlier. My apologies.

I'm back on this coming week, but then I'll be off for another 2 full weeks after.

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Hey @tyme ,

That is cool. Hope you are enjoying leave. I’m not sure about where to go. I have one unit left to be officially admitted as a lawyer. While I was doing placement I thought it was my career, but now I am finished maybe it isn’t. I am feeling a bit lost, and destiny seems to be slipping by so pretty lost. Have a good holiday, hopefully talk soon 😊

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Take care mate @Rockdog

We're on this journey together.

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Thank you @tyme ,

I am blessed to have you on this journey.
You take care as well. I have been a bit sad lately so when I get to talk to you a

i always feel better. Time is slipping by and I am starting to doubt we will get to be together now. But will always hold out hope.

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Hugs @Rockdog .

You are a recovery icon. Hope is what keeps us all going - me included.

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Hey @tyme ,

hugs to you. I am no recovery icon. I am having trouble seeing how it will work out. I do think if if was going to happen it would have by now. Wouldn’t she have made an attempt by now if it was to be? Will wait hoping forever, but I am thinking things probably won’t work and she didn’t feel the same way.

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