FORUMS

Connect with people who understand what you are going through, seek advice and surround yourself with support. We're free, anonymous, and professionally moderated 24/7.

  • 47,612Members
  • 1,358,869Posts
  • 1,400,000Visitors
Our stories

Destiny

Destiny

Hi @tyme ,

I would like to know more about destiny. I hadn’t really been in tune with my feelings, but when you mentioned about destiny things became came clear in my mind and my focus on the positive improved a lot. The one thing I wanted to ask was what if the destiny I am focussed on isn’t the same for her and she has other ideas. Were we really on the same page? I thought so, but then thought we weren’t. Is it ok to put all my heart into an outcome that I don’t know would be the same for her?

854 replies

451 - 460 of 854
1...454647...86

In response to: Destiny

Re: Destiny

@Rockdog

Sorry to hear that you are struggling. Here for you. Sending hugs x

In response to: Destiny

Re: Destiny

hey @Rockdog i'm so sorry to hear you've been having a tough time, is there anything in particular that's making you feel this way?

sitting with you 💙

In response to: Re: Destiny

Re: Destiny

Hi @rav3n ,

thank you for checking in with me. Sorry I don’t want to be negative but I feel I am falling back to my dark place. I am just really hating life, nothing is working out and it is torture really. I am pretty lonely, i don’t have my special person anymore and time is flying by so fast. It is another Christmas, another year wasted. Hope you are going ok. Thanks for your support.

In response to: Re: Destiny

Re: Destiny

you don't have to apologise for being honest about your feelings!! @Rockdog

it's totally okay to miss someone and i get that with the end of the year approaching, it can be a bit difficult to sit with those feelings. i'll sit with you too so you're not alone 💙

right now, it might be hard to believe this, but this year you've worked so hard on yourself & learnt so much. i don't think that's a waste at all. i know it sucks that the person you wanted in your life isn't present, but the most important person in your life is you. you are here, and maybe this year, you can focus on celebrating yourself for getting through so much. you deserve it 💙

do you have someone you can talk to about those heavier feelings? please do reach out, you matter and you most definitely aren't alone!!

Lifeline 13 11 14 https://www.lifeline.org.au/
Lifeline Text Support 0477 131 114 https://www.lifeline.org.au/crisis-text/
Suicide Call Back Service 1300 659 467 
https://www.suicidecallbackservice.org.au/
If feeling unsafe, please contact 000

In response to: Re: Destiny

Re: Destiny

Hi @rav3n ,

thank you for your support. No last year I used to call those help lines all the time. I would always get someone new, they didn’t get my story and I got triggered and felt worse so I’ll just keep it to myself and you guys on here.

In response to: Re: Destiny

Re: Destiny

Hi @Oaktree ,

awww you are so sweet. Thank you x

In response to: Re: Destiny

Re: Destiny

Hey @Rockdog ,

What's happening? Is your chin up?

In response to: Re: Destiny

Re: Destiny

Hey @tyme

😊 no it really isn’t at the moment.

Another year gone, and no destiny.

Just questions and doubts. Thanks for

asking though, hope you are well.

Give Ruby a big cuddle 🥰

In response to: Re: Destiny

Re: Destiny

You are in destiny now. What do you mean no destiny? @Rockdog

Mate, you gotta be the best that you can be.

Ruby is barking at the moment, trying to come into the house. I only just let her out.

In response to: Re: Destiny

Re: Destiny

Lol Ruby.

Yeah I guess so, I was just meaning my other destiny. The one that I stood right in front of but who drove off into who knows where.

451 - 460 of 854
1...454647...86