How do I best support my best friends

Hey @MarronButterFly ,

It depends on what sort of support you are able to give them. It's about being able to protect yourself while supporting your friends.

Sometimes, it's about just letting them know you are there.

Other times it might be chatting through challenges with them or referring them to relevant services.

What sort of support are you comfortable providing?

Hi @MarronButterFly

That must be so hard, I am sorry ❤️

As @tyme suggested, there are different ways in which you can support your friends.

I think the best thing to do is ask how they would like to be supported?

Most people just want someone to sit with them and listen.

Hi @MarronButterFly,

Thank you for sharing… I am sorry that your friends are going through so much and that it is weighing so heavily on you. It shows what a lovely friend you are, and they are very lucky to have you.

As mentioned previously by @tyme and @lavenderhaze, just being there and holding space for them is such a big way to show your support.

Just in case you are looking for some resources, I found these that may be of some use to you.

• https://www.blackdoginstitute.org.au/emergency-help/helping-someone-else/
• https://headspace.org.au/explore-topics/for-young-people/help-a-friend/

And remember to look after yourself in all of this, as we “can't pour from an empty cup”…

I hope that you all find the support that you need.

Looking forward to hearing from you,

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