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I really hate my life and the way I feel I wish I was normal I wish my way of coping wasn’t with a blvde now I’m going to have to deal with this for the rest of my life these scars and people walking on eggshells around me I hate it I shouldn’t have started cause now I can’t stop and it sucks how is anyone going to love me when I have hideous scars all over me im a scary scared up monster who is probably going to end up alone because I’m unloveable
im unloveable im unlike yes my parents my love me but do they like me ? is the real question does anyone actually like me ? or do they just pity me and put up with me ?
I know them feels, or they just want to talk to you coz they know you’ll listen & understand what their going through coz they have no one to turn to, really their just using you til they have gotten what they want of their chest & you don’t hear from.
I get the same shit it’s fucked, have you ever thought about getting a companion pet, or just a pet in general, they listen & you have some one to talk to that doesn’t talk over you, interrupt, argue,, think your crazy, ect
A pet can help so much & I’m not just talking about the normal dog cat, I mean anything, even if is an ant farm, don’t like ants, worms, bees, bloody Christmas beatles
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MarronButterFlySenior Contributor
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@ṮHËJÈWÊḺḺÉṞ @yeah I have 2 cats and a lizard and they don’t really help I really want a dog but I’m not allowed one but yeah
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lavenderhazeSenior Contributor
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Hi @MarronButterFly @ṮHËJÈWÊḺḺÉṞ
I am sorry to hear about the experiences you've shared and related to. I can imagine how difficult it must be.
I want to assure you, @MarronButterFly, that you're not a monster and will find people who will love you, with scars and all. Everyone has something that they are struggling with but it's only a matter of time till you find your people. Are there any alternative coping strategies that help you?
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AsgardSenior Contributor
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Hi @MarronButterFly
How are ye going today. Two cats and a lizard, now thats an interesting combination, do they get on. So who decided you can't get a dog?
I have some scars aswell, and I just look at them as a part of me, our bodies tell our stories both good and bad. You will get a lot of warmth from the people on this Forum, they will never judge you and are happy to always listen. Take care .................Asgard
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