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Very confused and overwhelmed

Very confused and overwhelmed

Hello, I am on the Aged Pension struggling to pay the rent and for other things.I don't have much in savings and terrified of running out of money.

I am doing Cert 3 in Aged Care/Disability 4 days a week ending first week in August. We have to do 120 hours 'placement' meaning volunteer hours to be qualified. Thus I can't really get a job on the days not in training which is Monday and weekends.

I have enquired with a couple of agencies to get work on those days and do the placement later on.

I will not be vaccinated for Covid and one agency requires it. The other can't offer work on those days.

The work I could get is as a Community Support Worker which doesn't require a certificate nor placement hours. It is going to client's homes and taking them out where they want to go and being a companion which appeals to me as I very lonely and feel isolated after moving from the Central Coast NSW to Deception Bay 4508 4 months ago.

The pay isn't as high if not certified. I will ring around to more agencies but that is a daunting task. Could do that today actually.

I suffer with depression.

I didn't go to training today to sort what to do and chill out feeling frustrated with myself.

I am tempted to opt-out of the training and get a Support worker job now as August is too far away to get money in if you get my drift.

I am an impulsive woman driven by lack of money and desperation to earn some. Also needing something constructive to do as I stay at home mostly not having $$ to do anything.

I can't keep my head above water without constant help and I am weary of everything.

Thanks for reading this!

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Hi to you and thanks for your nice words.

What stuck out for me was having a clear goal. I get stuck and feel trapped because I can't make a decision.

I'm not happy in a co-living house (73 yo) and haven't been since I came here 6 months ago.

My life went down the gurgler but have recovered something of myself to carry on with help from counsellors.

So yes I told myself I am not happy here and it's ok to realize it. I need to make where I live a home not a crashpad. I can't do that in this place ie I had big palms and plant stands in the loungeroom to make it welcoming, friendly whatever for the housemates and me. They were on rubber mats. The owner didn't like it and had to remove them. Now it looks like a showroom not a home which is depressing.

It's out there I want to live on my own with creature comforts I can afford on the Aged Pension.

The rent in this situation is killing me and my top-ups from savings is running out. I run out of money the second week of the fortnightly payment. Rentals are all around what I currently pay.

I have to get a job but can't work full-time due to a disability and can't stand for hours. Only job would be a Coles, Woolies etc one.

I am ringing QLD Housing for their various offerings - making an effort to change my situation.

Updates following!

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Re: Very confused and overwhelmed

Hi there, I will consider the bonbonnieres!

Haven't been on here for quite a while.

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Re: Very confused and overwhelmed

Thanks for that. Have rung some of them. Getting food from a church.

On the phone about rental subsidy and grants.

AskIzzy is quite helpful.

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BTW, I dropped out of that course from stress about finding a position without the Covid vaccination. Not many around. Spoke to trainer first.

I needed to have some medical tests as well which all came out positive.

The housing links you gave are not applicable to me.AskIzzy isn't much help as I use those services already.

I am not permitted to sell plants from this rental for goodness sake. I don't have any to sell at the moment anyway and customers would pick them up in front of the house ie no impact on anyone.

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