Teenager with OCD

Hi @QueenCornelia ,

I'm so sorry to hear about the challenges you're facing with your son's OCD. It sounds incredibly overwhelming. It's great that you're seeking help and planning to start medication soon.

In the meantime, I was wondering if you are seeking support from a therapist? Maybe someone who specializes in OCD could provide valuable guidance for both you and your son. They can offer coping strategies and techniques to manage the symptoms more effectively.

Please keep on connecting here and hopefully, you'll find this to be a very supportive community. ❤️

As much I hear how much your son is struggling @QueenCornelia , I hear how hard it is on your and your family.

OCD on top of a teenage brain sounds very challenging. I have worked with young people in the past who have severe anxiety. The school was so supportive in making adjustments so that the student could be at school. Does the school have anything in place for your son?

As much as I hear OCD is a cause for a lot of the issues, from experience, I feel it's important to set clear boundaries so he knows where the line is drawn. e.g. if he asks you for something, he needs to do it respectfully.

I hope you find space for yourself to work through this as I hear how hard it is.

Please look after yourself.

We are here for you.

Hey @QueenCornelia ,

How are you and your family going?

Thinking of you and hope you have some answers.

We are in a very similar situation @QueenCornelia. It's terrible, relentless and dispiriting. I'd love some guidance from the OP on boundary setting in this scenario. We feel like we are managing a very large, aggressive toddler, also with a younger sibling who is the feature of some of the intrusive thoughts.

Hi we are in a very similar situation with our son 19yo slowly depriving himself from the enjoyment of his life.
he cannot be touched, we must clean the place in order for us to live the house (floors, furniture, clean clothes, etc) and it’s almost impossible for him to function normally throughout the day.
repeated routines between cleaning his hands and forearms after and before touching things, needs for help to open doors or taps etc etc.

We know where we stand, OCD, does not cure itself and won’t get better alone without treatment and medicines but we ask HELP as parents to find the way to convince our son to seek for assistance and accept help because we are harmless and powerless towards the only thing can start to help him. His acceptance to be helped although he acknowledges his troubles.
pls assist. Thank you.

I am in the same situation. my 19 year old left home because of this and is now living in his car and unwilling to return…I really fear for him and am at a loss as to what to do

Hi everyone. This is my first reply. It is refreshing to have somewhere to go where others are going through similar things with ocd. My 16 year old and hubby both have it, our lives are completely revolved around obsessions/ compulsions/ medications/ appointments etc.

I’m not sure that I have helpful advice.

It really is a daily struggle. There are good online ocd courses for teens if you can’t get them out of the house to a therapist, and medications are helpful.

My son isn’t aggressive with his symptoms, just doesn’t want to talk about it, school refusal, struggles to do things in a timely manner.

Hi @Fairyflosser

Thanks for replying, it's good to have you participating in the forums!

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