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Alone

Unknown userMember07 Jan 2017, 12:08 am AEDT

Alone

Feeling very alone. Overwhelmed and don't really know how to manage everything. So much pressure from everything and everywhere. Stuff to Do for family court. Work.... So much pressure there and unknowns. My heart freezes when I think about it. Son has surgery in a few weeks and things are just building up like pressure wise. All I think about is s. I'm Scared all the time or numb or overwhelmed and it feels like no one can help. Worker said I need to not be the.victim and get back in the driver's seat for everything but I just freeze and feel overwhelmed. I had one thing to do today, to make an appt with Lawyer to go over family court stuff and I couldn't do it. I feel useless and like im sliding back to where I was almost exactly two years ago when I did try to end everything. Things in my head are so bad. Some other things that I can't tell about.
Ahhh
Lj

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espritSenior Contributor07 Jan 2017, 8:21 am AEDT

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Hi Lisa Jane. I hope you are feeling stronger today. Totally get that overwhelmed feeling. Not sure what to do about it. Only when I have to do something I get it done as soon as possible to get it out of the way. Otherwise the anxiety just builds up more and more. Fake it till you make it kind of thing. Know that you can still do what you have to do while going through the anxiety. Or just don't do it. Sending you strength and healing. Xxx

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HappynessSenior Contributor07 Jan 2017, 12:15 pm AEDT

Re: Alone

Hello @Former-Member

I Feel Alone Too

Its Just All My Friends Over Last Few Years Have Asked For Sexual Intercourse

Whatever Their Sexual Preference

And I'm Not Really Interested Because To Me Their Just Freinds

And Now I'm Finding That I'm Weening Myself Off From Making Contact With Them

I Feel Alone Too

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HappynessSenior Contributor07 Jan 2017, 1:33 pm AEDT

Re: Alone

Could isolation and control tactics and manipulation

Be a case of DV

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JensmumNew Contributor07 Jan 2017, 2:42 pm AEDT

Re: Alone

Sometimes it is just one thing at a time, maybe just accepting that the thing you aren't strong enough to do right now is make that appointment, thats okay, sometimes i think getting out of bed is all i can manage, stay strong xx

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Unknown userMember07 Jan 2017, 11:00 pm AEDT

Re: Alone

Hi @esprit and @Jensmum

you're right that should just have gotten it done so its not still hanging over me. i just feel so frozen and like nothingi do now can make any difference. thank you for replying.

Hi @Happyness

yes, those things are definitely a part of DV. are you ok?

It's been so hot today (i cant complain too much though because its been only two days and its cooler again tomorrow. But kids were cranky and bored so it was a long day..

just exhausted in every way

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