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You okay @Former-Member .... ?

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Hi @Faith-and-Hope

Hi @oceangirl .... 🤗💕

Youre still up .... ?

I came through late on your Not Doing So Well thread and figured I had missed you tonight. It ended up being a busy day for me today.

Hi @Jacques

You are a beautiful person @Jacques

I can't possibly read all the threads - I keep to a few - and there are some people who are special - you are among the first people I spoke to here - and that is a wonderful memory

I am so sorry you have no privacy - how about you make a sign and put it outside your door saying "Private - please knock" and even so - doing that - people may or may not respect that - but you are stating your wishes

We all need privacy - people should not open people's doors and just walk in and then make comments - it's not polite behaviour

I hope you get your dignity and privacy in your own room - somehow the idea of having people walk in our you makes me sither - I would not appreciate it myself

You are a good friend

Dec

And yes - I like to believe my son is proud of me - if it's possible for him to know

Hi @Former-Member ..... ❤️💕🤗🌷💐💗🌸💜❣

Yes I have recovered from my trip, but now we're all just sort of treading water till WH is on the plane back soon and the household here can start to settle in his absence. There is no point trying to settle yet when he is all go as normal, and then go-go on top of that trying to squash everything he needs to achieve before he leaves in - time wise and physical prep of all the food stuff and whatever he needs as supplies while he is away .... grrr

Btw .... others can walk along with you, and read about what is troubling you, and share in that misery without riding the same emotional waves you are .... that is part of the function of compassion .... we have anchors that can help to stabilise you when yours are not holding so well .... if you want some company on the water, stay with us ..... maybe read some of the Enjoying Time With Others threads to help distract you ... there are beautiful images and gorgeous clips on some of those threads too ...

Hugs @Former-Member ..... ❤️💕

hello @Former-Member @Faith-and-Hope @TAB @Jacques @Owlunar

I read that you are feeling very unwell and worrying about writing your thoughts on here

please dont think that your thoughts are viewed as negative - that is just patterned thinking, butting in.

letting go of you feelings on here is helpful

if people dont want to read for whatever reason they will walk on by and perhaps check in on you at another time

they too might be struggling

i am on priority list for hospital at moment

i am basicalling existing getting up & trying to get through each day without falling apart

is that how you feel?

I can never remember where i have spoken to friends i made when i first came on here and found this thread yesterday surprisingly

I read a post from someone who was struggling and that post really touched me. I felt so indignant and needed to respond to let that person know they have every right to feel trespassed on

i dont know if i helped that particular person or not, perhaps they are just letting themselves be quiet for now, it is not about my receiving recognition either

LJ responded with a comment that lit my humour up instantly an incredible feeling from where i had been in my emotions

i felt euphoric and responded to several people made me feel alive briefly

then later last night I felt selfish that I should have been thinking about them

this is what i have been told to stop overempathising

yet it doesnt gel in my head, if someone else is having an awful time and so am I , isnt it a good thing to just say a few words .... well yes i do tend to write whole story books

this morning i have read back over posts etc and feel that I might have been burdensome.

I do hope this is not the case if I have I sincerely apologise

you are struggling and I just want to let you know that I heard you and am struggling in my world right alongside you

keep writing