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Stuck and can’t escape it.

Stuck and can’t escape it.

Hey,

things are hard and I just can’t seem to escape it, I went to the emergency room last night hoping to get the help I needed from mental health clinicians but they basically sent me on my way, I had SH which was why I went and they still discharged me, I ended up calling them crying for help and they told me to go home and try my coping skills, barely even made it home without having a massive crying episode and having to take myself back for them to just tell me I’m fine and discharge me again.

I feel like I’m just a burden and mistake, it feels all to overwhelming, they are supposed to be there to support you not just send you on your way when your basically in crisis.

the nurse I got when I came back was really rude to me she was a mental health person and basically told me to go home and try my coping skills.[edited by moderator] I was upset and really not feeling great mentally.

im just stuck on what to do, I feel like I just can’t escape it…..

am safe

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Re: Stuck and can’t escape it.

I’m so sorry to hear that @Fluttershy1 💜

it’s so disheartening to hear you’ve been turned away from help 😔

did you get some rest?
the complexity of distress experienced when miscarriage occurs is very misunderstood by services imho, and the impact on a person isn’t fully recognised.
I gently encourage you to contact Pink Elephants so they can provide you peer support.. here’s one of their support resources in case you’d like to take a look 💜🌺

and keep connected here with the forums. Sitting and holding space for you 💜🌺

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Re: Stuck and can’t escape it.

oh dear @Fluttershy1 that is just so wrong to get turned away again.

I'm sorry that happened once again.

Here for you hon 💗💗

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Hey there @Fluttershy1 🙂 💜

Just wondering how youre doing this evening sweetheart - feel free to reply if/when you feel up to it, and kindly know that we are here for you 🌺

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Re: Stuck and can’t escape it.

I got heaps of rest &

@Former-Member - it was nice to be able to sleep. Am safe

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It’s stupid @Snowie - they shouldn’t turn people away it’s disgusting, like they are supposed to help me not be useless, one of them wanted to admit me before they left but overnight staff came in and sent me out. So I’ve been sent back to the community team but I don’t even know if I will get accepted.

im safe

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Re: Stuck and can’t escape it.

@Former-Member - trying to push through, it’s feeling quite hard tonight, my support coordinator had a go at me today because I wanted public holiday support and she said no. She needs to look at my budget, I don’t know how to feel. I just want my baby back. I’m a mess, I broke down for the first time yesterday. Am safe

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It is stupid @Fluttershy1

I wish they would take MH more seriously. It is so hard to get help at times and I feel like we are discriminated against again and again. There are so many problems with our current hospital system.

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Re: Stuck and can’t escape it.

really glad you got some rest @Fluttershy1 and slept, that is really good to hear dearest 🙂🌺💜

Still holding space for you, and here if you want to chat xx

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Im so sorry about what happened with your support worker regarding the public holiday @Fluttershy1 😔💜

And I can really understand wanting your baby back sweetheart... its a really hard time dealing with this kind of loss isn't it.. just know you are amongst gentleness here xx

Getting to the point of breaking down can sometimes be a part of the process of grieving, and it can be helpful to let it out 💜

The fact that you have been reaching out, speaking to supports, and keeping in contact here, says loads about your determination to push forward, even as hard as it is, and for that I am really proud of you Fluttershy1 *hugs*

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Re: Stuck and can’t escape it.

I agree, we need a whole new system @Snowie - it’s so cruel. Am safe

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