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Stuck and can’t escape it.

Stuck and can’t escape it.

Hey,

things are hard and I just can’t seem to escape it, I went to the emergency room last night hoping to get the help I needed from mental health clinicians but they basically sent me on my way, I had SH which was why I went and they still discharged me, I ended up calling them crying for help and they told me to go home and try my coping skills, barely even made it home without having a massive crying episode and having to take myself back for them to just tell me I’m fine and discharge me again.

I feel like I’m just a burden and mistake, it feels all to overwhelming, they are supposed to be there to support you not just send you on your way when your basically in crisis.

the nurse I got when I came back was really rude to me she was a mental health person and basically told me to go home and try my coping skills.[edited by moderator] I was upset and really not feeling great mentally.

im just stuck on what to do, I feel like I just can’t escape it…..

am safe

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Hi @Fluttershy1

I'm sorry that you have had to go through all of that last night hon/

It's good that you are back in your own space. Hopefully that helps a little.

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@Fluttershy1 I hope you are feeling better today, hun ❤️

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Re: Stuck and can’t escape it.

Hey @creative_writer @Snowie @Jynx @Shaz51 @lavenderhaze @tyme @Former-Member - I don’t know how to feel today has been nothing but horrible, I just wish I never miscarried, I hate myself.

big emotions. Am safe

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Hey @Fluttershy1 ,

I'm so sorry to hear how hard it is at the moment.

Allow yourself to grieve. Have you ever phoned Griefline before? https://griefline.org.au/

Your feelings are valid. Have you had any support since leaving hospital?

We are here for you.

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Sending you lots of hugs my friend 🧡 @Fluttershy1 , sitting with you ❤️

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Hey @Fluttershy1 you have done nothing wrong. Everything that happened was out of your control. At times Fate decides things are not meant to be and takes things into his/her own hands.

please be gentle on yourself and take as much time to yourself as you need to grieve. It is a huge, sad event that you have gone through. It’s ok to not know how to feel.

please keep reaching out to us on the forums. We are here to listen, to talk and support. Similarly there are specific counselling services that you can phone and talk to

sending you lots of hugs 🫂

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Im so very sorry to hear that @Fluttershy1 💜

Did they end up helping you?

This is such a hard time right now... holding space and sitting with you xx

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Hey @tyme - no not much support, I’m hiding away, I’m broken and shattered. Am safe

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Thanks @Shaz51 - it’s really hard, I’m feeling like a mess

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@Former-Member - I know, it’s just hard, things are too much at the moment I’m so devastated that I miscarried, I wanted to keep the baby, it broke me to bits.

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