Hi everyone, really hoping this forum will help to deal with all the complex issues dealing with the death of a child and the family unit.. I had moderate Post natal depression with my first and only child and then two and half years ago my son was killed in a car crash, so really battling to stay on top and not slide back down that slippery slope of depression. My husband is not doing well at all(talks about ending it all constantly) and it is a battle to keep myself up and positive let alone prop him up as well. We lost the same child, but our journeys are so very different.
Speaking of work, my work has been so understanding and has been my sanity. It give me somewhere to go everyday and concentrate on something concrete.
To Ma60, glad your colleagues are starting to be more understanding. That really helps to get through the day in a more caring environment.