AppleblossomSenior Contributor
APPROACHING SURE?
I had a drive into the country yesterday to attend a christmas lunch with people that I did not really know. I am needing to process what happened. If anyone would like to respond.
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
I had a drive into the country yesterday to attend a christmas lunch with people that I did not really know. I am needing to process what happened. If anyone would like to respond.
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
Thank you @Faith-and-Hope, @Appleblossom , I will ![]()
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
I am Glad @Shaz51 I remember you were not comfortable with going away and leaving Mr Shaz for your own self care, but making the project HOME might be perfect.
At first I felt terribly guilty in spending any money on a non essential, but it is possible to do a lot to personalise a home. Eventually I realised that all the fear I had was pointless as the choices were good and worked out and gave me pleasure over many years, Eg spending extra $30 getting a powder coated security door.
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
Good morning @Appleblossom, @Faith-and-Hope ![]()
I remember you were not comfortable with going away and leaving Mr Shaz for your own self care, --- Ohh @Appleblossom , you must of known something-- as my mum is very concerned about me -- I have always looked after everyone else before myself
she had a big talk over the phone -- I need to do more for me ,
making the project HOME might be perfect.-- I think it will be a good step forward too
At first I felt terribly guilty -- me too , I told mum that I felt funny doing things in her house that she once had and she said that it took her years to change things in her mum`s house which she brought
Enjoy my Friend @Appleblossom
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hope you have a good day
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Hi @appleblossom, jjust dropping in some flowers to brighten your day and let you know you're one of the last people I'd ever be angry with, because of all you've gone through, and still am, and all we have in common and how youve been open and honest here and generous and helpful... ... Its OK.
"Where's all he grownups" sounds like a frightened cry of an orphaned child. I wish I could give her a hug and say it OK I'm here. But you can, and you are but know its exhausting..
Its not fair that we have to go through life with this this broken wing of bad foundations and MI. But like that saying "life is difficult, but not impossible"
You're right, I do love my shop work, and community support days, it has opened me up (if i keep persisting & don't quit again - when blackdog gets off his leash like this last couple of week). Like you are doing with the zoo work - hope it is giving you some happy energy, sounds like it is.
Do what ya gotta do for you, its ok, You're a good person apple, stay strong sista xox
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@Appleblossom I just read about the passing of your brother. I just wanted you to know I'm thinking of you at this really difficult time.
Sending all my love and hugs 💜🤗
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TeejSenior Contributor
Just dropping these in for you @Appleblossom. Hoping you are ok and thinking of you.💜🤗
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
Its a beautiful flower arrangement. Thanks and Thanks for thinking of me @Teej
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TeejSenior Contributor
Hey @Appleblossom,
ive seen you around occasionally. Thinking of you and wondering how you are going? I’d love to hear from you.
I really hope you are ok.
Sending hugs 💜🤗
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
me three @Appleblossom
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