ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
Does anyone want to talk
Contact my sister because I’m a nice person and it’s Christmas sees my message doesn’t respond
call my brother doesn’t answer the phone
Sorry for trying to be nice forget I even tried
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
Contact my sister because I’m a nice person and it’s Christmas sees my message doesn’t respond
call my brother doesn’t answer the phone
Sorry for trying to be nice forget I even tried
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
LOL @tyme 5 years is a lot for a little one!
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
@tyme
6 yeah! “You stay away from me you gross boy”
im like woah bro, you stuck your fingers in my mouth yesterday now your calling me gross,the tonsillitis train is stopping all stations and I reckon you’re next
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
@ArraDreaming Toby just came up to me wondering what I was laughing so loudly at LOL You are one funny dude 🤣
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
That is a bit weird @ArraDreaming I take Toby with me to Hammerbarn (Bunnings). I put his blanket in the trolley and he sits up top waiting for his adoring fans to give him pats. The staff know us well hahaha
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tymeModerator
@Zoe7 wrote:
LOL @tyme 5 years is a lot for a little one!
100% @Zoe7 ! It's LITERALLY his WHOLE ENTIRE LIFE!!! lol
kids are too funny.
This 3 year old here is going through this horrible horrible phase. Just screaming and crying all the time.
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
ROFL @tyme You are funny too - Tobes does not know what is going on here having his Mum laugh so much!!! Yes it is LITERALLY his whole entire life - what a perfect (and accurate) use of literally 👍🤣
Then I read about the 3 year old that you have around so much of the time and just wanted to hug you 😢❤️
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tymeModerator
Yeah @Zoe7 . I don't have my own kids, but my sister's three kids pretty much live in my pocket so that's more than enough for me.
Sometimes, I think, will I be lonely when I'm older? But then, I'm so so happy now that if I were to have kids, i reckon it might throw a spanner in the works lol. I don't want to be liable for other human beings. I'm enough work to have to deal with other little beings that need me 24/7.
I can barely do pets. I've had 2 dogs, and it's enough. They've crossed the rainbow bridge and it was devastating for me. I can't cope with the loss nor be obsessively worried about pets being at home. I've got fish and a spiny leaf insect and that's enough lol.
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
Hearing you @tyme I never wanted kids and it worked out that I would not be able to anyway without a whole lot of intervention (and it could still probably end in heart ache). I think, for some, part of a trauma background gives us a different perspective on bringing little people into this world.
It was only yesterday that I said to my Mum "I still cannot believe I have a dog and Toby is 10 now". She agreed. When I lost my first cat I was devastated then Cat came into my life very soon afterwards (so was meant to be). I still cannot believe she is gone (I still have her blanket and cushion on one chair she used the most). It is one place Clover has never gone near so she also must know how important it is to me. My Mum is worried about what will happen when I lose Toby - I try not to think about it as he is my world - but he is getting older and I will not have him for ever. I do know you won't see me here for some time when that does happen - life will be so different and I will have to find a way to cope (hopefully).
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