HappynessSenior Contributor
FACING THE DARKNESS
I face the darkness
But there's still hope
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FACING THE DARKNESS
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
Re: FACING THE DARKNESS
I get the feeling you have had quite a journey and been steadily making decisions for good not darker dealings.
It is often hard to find people that understand especially when you are making major changes.
I have to say that I did love your sunnies emoticon ..
I felt you were managing the weight of things you could not completely reveal.
Stay safe. You are part of this community.
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HappynessSenior Contributor
Re: FACING THE DARKNESS
I've got word?
SD pacts re: organized people in position of authority
I hope people have some common sense
Don't believe everything your told
Think for yourself
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
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Yep @Happyness
My common sense is my own odd brand ... I make mistakes many would never make .. but I also see things others dont realise.
Think for yourself .. is good but ... sometimes it takes time .. took me a while.
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HappynessSenior Contributor
Re: FACING THE DARKNESS
I go back with the internet
I used DOS internet
Why do i get the feeling that i'm not good enough
Its their loss not mine
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HappynessSenior Contributor
Re: FACING THE DARKNESS
We've lost the whole scene
And everyones faking it
I've already started not associating
But i guess 'Saneforums' is the lesser of two evils
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HappynessSenior Contributor
Re: FACING THE DARKNESS
The whole scene is wrong compared to the past
I feel i've lost everyone, and their too far gone
But at least i've got you 'Saneforums'
Maybe one day i could memorize 'The Bible'
Sending hugs and kisses
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💛💛💛
💚💚💚
💙💙💙
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HappynessSenior Contributor
Re: FACING THE DARKNESS
I'm distrustful of
Family
Friends
Church Friends
Health Care Workers
How can i learn to trust them
It doesn't help me in my recovery
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NotLabelDefinedSenior Contributor
Re: FACING THE DARKNESS
Hi @Happyness,
I find trust between two people is a continual two way process of openness, sharing emotions and feelings, reliability, comfort and safety, unconditional support, empathy, being real, enabling positives, nurturing strengths, reflection, and respect
what are some words that resonate trust for you? 🙂
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HappynessSenior Contributor
Re: FACING THE DARKNESS
Escaping the Underworld and Mafia
Resonates with me
Escaping being a sex slave
Resonates with me
People to stop trying to get something from me
Because i don't have what they are looking for
Resonates with me
Being independent
Resonates with me
Being alone if it is safer
Resonates with me
Trusting in a higher power
Resonates with me
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Unknown userMember
Re: FACING THE DARKNESS
Hi @Happyness. I can find it hard to trust people too and sometimes it feels like the people that should be able to help (like health professionals) can actually make things harder. Something that's helped me is to be honest with people about how I'm feeling, trying to keep my emotions in check when I do, so that I can work through the issues I am experiencing. Taking tiny steps at a time to do this has been really important for me. I hope you're able to find what works for you soon too. Sending you best wishes
