TABSenior Contributor
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TABSenior Contributor
.. where everybody knows your name ..haha ..cheers .. and relax and just chat
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TABSenior Contributor
Good Morning Ms G. @MissGremlin
Tired and ache. Been up since 4 ish . Going back to bed hope things okay with you
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MissGremlinSenior Contributor
@TAB hope you can get some more rest and feel less achey after a sleep. Take it easy tab's.
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JacquesSenior Contributor
hi @TAB @Bunniekins going ok here, lovely sunny day, a bit chilli this morning. hope everyone is well.
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TABSenior Contributor
thanks @MissGremlin ust waking up now
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TABSenior Contributor
Sounds good @Jacques I sat in the sun here for a while yest
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DownMoreThanUpSenior Contributor
@TAB @Bunniekins @Jacques @Taali @heartathome @Realness @Appleblossom @ENKELI
i had a bad night realising i will soon have to put Shadow down, she is already 11 and be hard to relocate, and get rid of Zeus. i'm planning to buy myself a motor-home of some kind. So i can move about more freely from 'unsafe places' and also avoid the high rental costs, and forced locations. However although i can camp in national park easily enough, i cannot take dogs in there. Or have any place to keep him other than the car. This means i will literally mean i loose all i loved and held dear and am forced to make a new life from scratch. Been a bit of a turmoil in my head the last 12 hours considering having to do that over the next few months let alone be willing to.
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TaaliSenior Contributor
Oh my, @DownMoreThanUp
That's an awful lot to deal with.
I hope it all works out well for you friend 🧡 @Taali
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TABSenior Contributor
Hey @DownMoreThanUp 19 years ago I started going away for months at a time for work.I had a beautiful cat that was around 13. it hadnt been much of a life for her last 6 years cooped up in upstairs flat with terrible neighbours. Got to a stage where people refused to look after her so I thought this is my shot at not being broke forever and shes had an extra 12 years from when was supposed to go at pound,so I got her put down. it messed with me for a while, but I turned it into a good thing and would talk to her.
Someone I know is working part time but behind in bills and rent is most of income, so failing a complete miracle they will be homeless before long. Igave them '000s in dribs and drabs , may as well have set fire to it. Made no difference. they have toy dog and cat . been telling them , animals have to go if you cant look after yourself , then have to be sorted first , in whatever way.
Do what you have to do.
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RealnessSenior Contributor
Hi @DownMoreThanUp ,
I've been thinking of you. Wondering what you will do for your next phase of life. The motor home sounds a great idea. I have an uncle who absolutely loves his life moving around. But it is sad about the pets. And it is starting from scratch. I'll be praying for you.
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
@Jacques @Taali @MissGremlin @Realness Hello all...
@TAB friend told me she had to put cat down this week. It does mess with the head as its an extra complication to the grieving.
@DownMoreThanUp Good luck in making all those decisions. Its many. Hearing you about the conflict of dogs in National Parks. Why cant we love them both .... somethings gotta give.... HOPE you find a way through....
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