Tabaluga's

@Meowmy hey gorgeous, I hope Thursday treats you well xo

I meant I thought you seemed angry @ENKELI

Yeah easy to throw stones at Rio's

Their playing field tho

Not working Friday @Meowmy ?

Guess it's Thursday today ok it is

Feel bit better but guilty for no gym now txt gf asked me for $ first time ever. I have got bills too . Gave the money. Doubt ever see it again. It won't help either cos their life is unsustainable. They don't work full time, in debt and rent expensive 3br house for themselves

Hi @TAB

It sounds like you're feeling conflicted about the decision and concerned about the impact on your own finances. I understand that setting financial boundaries in relationships can be challenging.

If it feels supportive or approachable, the National Debt Helpline - 1800 007 007 offers free and confidential support.

The community is also here for you - glad you reached out💙

~ @Honeymoon

@StuF trucks use low gear day - happy Thursday!

@Taali great song! California Dreamin' brings back good memories, something I share with my bro. Love it 😍

Happy Thursday @ENKELI !

@Taali ha ha I lived with the opposite - someone who couldn't sing for love or money but still did so! She was awful! I used to tell her "God loves a joyful noise."

@TAB aah the beauty of text. Can't tell if being sarcastic, angry or joking. No, not angry.

I want someone to reach out and offer me an interview so I don't have the anxiety of applying for a job. Silly really. Old days I used to be able to write a cover letter, 3 page selection criteria and get an interview on the spot. Age and mental health sucks sweaty balls!

Hi @Honeymoon I do over spend from time to time.

I have a house full of stuff dont/wont/cant use

this was personal 'loan' to someone I know.

Yes,it hurt a bit I still have very small amt of super and100x what I loaned/forwent in savings left over from inheritance. Also my house is paid off and has gained 80% in value over last 3 years. .. having said that, its bills time and savings and super are going down , not up

Allits going to do it keep them off the street for another month while they live in denial. I have given them lots in the past . This is the first time they ever asked me though, so things must really be desperate.

Thanks for your thoughts. More apt advice would be related to decision making maybe , well guess it money as well. Im not giving them anymore unless I miraculously get a job. I dont want to end up where they are