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Just wanted to make this thread so I can write whatever I want and talk to people without taking over everyone else’s threads or like derailing conversations for everyone else. just gonna post what I would normally post elsewhere but all in the one place I guess
whoever wants to respond can and is welcome (I hate just talking to myself)
I am listening to some of his songs @ArraDreaming thank you for introducing him.
What is your fav song of his?
Oh!! Thanks for the tip. I need to make my siblings like more veggies but having trouble with that 🤔
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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Anything on Revision for regrowth album Or - At One (revision) - The Recipe - Abandoned - Changes 2pac cover
Do you look after them @fluffylight Kids are hard to cook for, full transparency my kids only ate the chicken not the coleslaw or the sweet potato chips
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fluffylightSenior Contributor
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I must have a listen! Do you listen to music while you cook?
Haha oh no kids aren't a fan too? @ArraDreaming
Yes I care for them 🙂 ones in they teen years and other 12years!
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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that’s nice of you @fluffylight did a lot of caring for my siblings (non officially) for a long time learnt to cook for them from a young age (was only oven potato gems) always listen to music while I cook sometimes podcast with headphones 🎧 depends on what’s happening in my house at the time busy place around here
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fluffylightSenior Contributor
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I would say its non official care on my end too @ArraDreaming
Oh yes I have learnt how to cook myself to feed they bellies. How many siblings do you have? Are you the oldest? I'm the oldest so naturally everything falls onto me.
I like that idea, music brings peace to me. How about you?
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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There’s 12 of us, depends on who you count will answer if I’m the oldest, I have many halfxand step siblings, there will be more of us out there for sure… dad was pretty transient in and out different partners, mum and dad were on and off so I’m sure I’ll have more siblings out there, but I was always the oldest kid in our house @fluffylight took on a lot of parental responsibility
yeah I love music, always have it on
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fluffylightSenior Contributor
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Thank you for sharing that. How was it to have that many family connections?
I only have two siblings but my dad had 6 others.
I just listened to Changes 2pac cover - wow!! @ArraDreaming
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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ehh wouldn’t call them connections, biological relations maybe but definitely very little connection to some of them @fluffylight make of that what you will, some of them just aren’t worth speaking to some of them I would like to speak to
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fluffylightSenior Contributor
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I understand. Sounds like you know what feels right for you @ArraDreaming
Do you get much opportunity to speak to the ones that you like to?
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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Not really…. Anyone under 18 is in the care system and that is very difficult to manage @fluffylight
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