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Managing thoughts of suicide & self-harm

Topic Tuesday// Suicide: You Can Talk About It// Tuesday 31st October 2023 5:30-7PM AEDT

Topic Tuesday// Suicide: You Can Talk About It// Tuesday 31st October 2023 5:30-7PM AEDT

On Tuesday 31st October, we’d like to invite you to join us to explore talking about suicide safely, caring for those living with chronic suicidality, and the importance of speaking out rather than suffering in silence, with a few of the SANE Team.

 

This discussion will likely be triggering for some as we talk about suicide. We strongly encourage you to take a moment to reflect if you are able to talk about this as you can always read through the discussion later. If you would like to participate, please take care of yourself first (including tapping out of the discussion if needed or reaching out for extra support) and be mindful of our guidelines, particularly around safety.

The event start times across Australia are below:

WA: 2:30pm
NT: 4:00pm

SA: 5:00pm

QLD: 4:30pm

NSW, ACT, VIC & TAS: 5:30pm

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New to the forums or want to get involved in this discussion? Check out the How To Guide for Topic Tuesdays.

Hope to see you there in the chat on the night!

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Re: Topic Tuesday// Suicide: You Can Talk About It// Tuesday 31st October 2023 5:30-7PM AEDT

Oh that sounds so tough, I'm so sorry that you experienced that, sending you lots of hugs and thank you for sharing that with us @Shaz51

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Re: Topic Tuesday// Suicide: You Can Talk About It// Tuesday 31st October 2023 5:30-7PM AEDT


@Snowdragon wrote:

A safe discussion does not include method or location.

But there's an argument for being open about methods, too, isn't there? I mean when people go and DIY it, because they don't know how to do it effectively, you can end up with some really really bad horror stories. I've heard about botched attempts that have left people completely paralyzed and worse. You could argue that it might've been better for them to know how to do it effectively.

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Re: Topic Tuesday// Suicide: You Can Talk About It// Tuesday 31st October 2023 5:30-7PM AEDT

I'm so sorry you had that experience @Shaz51. Visions make total sense as an after effect. Remember to take good care of yourself and reach out for support if needed 💛

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Re: Topic Tuesday// Suicide: You Can Talk About It// Tuesday 31st October 2023 5:30-7PM AEDT

Its hard also - you say you dont want to live etc but if you say that you wont act on those feelings then you to tend to not get support either. They then think there is no risk so no need to support.

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Re: Topic Tuesday// Suicide: You Can Talk About It// Tuesday 31st October 2023 5:30-7PM AEDT

My husband has been admitted twice in hospital since then @amber22 @TideisTurning , @Snowdragon

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Re: Topic Tuesday// Suicide: You Can Talk About It// Tuesday 31st October 2023 5:30-7PM AEDT

I agree with that @lemlem678. It wasn’t until I actually attempted that they started to take me seriously

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Re: Topic Tuesday// Suicide: You Can Talk About It// Tuesday 31st October 2023 5:30-7PM AEDT

Yeah you get treated as being dramatic and attention seeking.

I recently went through a public mental health service. On the first appointment the psychiatrist said "being passively suicidal isnt so bad"

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Re: Topic Tuesday// Suicide: You Can Talk About It// Tuesday 31st October 2023 5:30-7PM AEDT

@lemlem678

This is why the language we use is so important

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Re: Topic Tuesday// Suicide: You Can Talk About It// Tuesday 31st October 2023 5:30-7PM AEDT

I believe any Suicidality is an expression of extreme distress, pain and struggle @lemlem678 Everyone going through these experiences deserves support. To those who haven't received the support you deserve when you've needed it, I'm sorry ❤️

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Re: Topic Tuesday// Suicide: You Can Talk About It// Tuesday 31st October 2023 5:30-7PM AEDT

It can be so tough when you don't feel listened to until it gets very serious.

I'm so sorry that you both have had similar experiences with mental health professionals in that way ❤️@lemlem678 @Captain24

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