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BlueBaySenior Contributor
Hi to all my friends ❤️
I don’t know what to say
except I’ve missed you all
have often thought about joining again but my mind was a bit out of control
now I feel lonely and abandoned
so I thought I would come and say hi again
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SnowieSenior Contributor
Hi @BlueBay
So nice to see you back on the forums.
Sorry to hear that you are lonely and feel abandoned. Is there anything that has led to these feelings?
Please know that you are not alone on here
💕
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CarloSenior Contributor
Hi @BlueBay and welcome back
Hope you're feeling better
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Blackbird11Senior Contributor
HI @BlueBay
I'm fairly new here, so it's nice to see you reconnecting. So glad you are here at the forums. Lonely and abandoned are really tough emotions to deal with. You are not alone, we're here. Do you have favorite hobbies or activities?
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BlueBaySenior Contributor
hey @Snowie so nice to see you again ❤️
thanks @Carlo @Blackbird11 for welcoming me back
i am currently crocheting baby blankets to be ready to sell
i also have another project about to start - crochet mini handbags in bright green, yellow and blue
and also crochet some shopping bags
i will soon write up a new post about me and will tag you all. i know @Snowie you know, but i will tag you too.
hi also to @Shaz51 my beautiful forum sister, how are you lovely?
at the moment i can't remember any other names but pls tag others if you like
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Blackbird11Senior Contributor
Thank you @BlueBay
Crochet sounds fun and it sounds as though you have talent, hearing about your projects. I have enrolled in a beginners class in December and looking forward to it. Is it a meditative type activity?
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SnowieSenior Contributor
I'm sure all would love to see some of your projects if you feel comfortable @BlueBay
Sounds like it keeps you really busy and occupied.
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
Hugs @BlueBay Good to see you
Your old
Gently Bently friend
Apple
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
Ohhh soo good to see you my awesome sister @BlueBay 🥰
I have missed you lots , sending you lots of hugs and sitting with you ❤️
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saturnzoonSenior Contributor
I have had similar issues as well, have been away for a long time, with mental health and trouble concentrating @BlueBay .
Have also had physical problems with lower back pain not being able to do much.
Now my older son is moving Friday with his girlfriend they get the keys and move weekend and I'm a mess, cause I have suffer from lloneliness and abandonment part of my mental health, I'm not coping with it.
I'm really happy for them but my head doesn't agree, I will still have my youngest at home but spends 24/7 in his room playing online gaming or YouTube so I only see him when he comes out to get something to eat.
I'm scared to be alone and don't even know if I can afford the rent and bills.
I have missed you all and now able to come on here again and catch up on posts I've missed
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