Suffering extreme PTSD

Hey @Dyna welcome to the forums. I'm really sorry to hear about what you're going through, it sounds like you're really trying but have been turned away/refused support from many, which is deeply unfair.

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Welcome, @Dyna . I'm sorry to hear about your suffering and your extreme PTSD 😞

I'm also sad to hear that you can't find mental health help.

I was thinking about your post, and I wanted to say, I know it feels hopeless but please keep trying to find MH help. It took me 18 years and many psychologists /counsellors before I found two excellent therapists in a row starting 15 years ago. Since then I've got a lot of healing for my childhood (lifelong) trauma and MIs (mental illnesses). I am too deeply damaged to ever be fully healed, but I have a good life now thankfully, despite my 6 MIs and trauma.

Sending you best wishes, @Dyna ...

Hey there @Dyna

Im new to this forum, just joining today to try to find some help with my PTSD caused by majorly invasive and painful surgery from a rare spinal tumour and time in Intensive care and a long painful rehabilitation. Your story really resonated with me, it’s so complex and difficult to find help for PTSD, I also really got what you were saying about the chronic pain and feeling lost but also wanting to be there for your family. I find that a lot of the specialists I’ve seen focus on the physical but can’t help much with the trauma. The grief and the constant wish I could go back in time to when I was healthy. The pain is isolating and so is the lack of trust for those you’re asking for help. I too have said if I was animal they’d have put me to sleep. I get it and wanted to let you know you’re not alone.

Hey @Khayali thanks for sharing your story, and welcome to the forums.

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Hey there @Dyna you still around on the forum? 🙂🌺

I’m Pink Flamingo - Peer Guide.
your story is a very sad one which starts with discrimination by the systems that are supposed to uphold justice.
Im very aware of this after spending 14 years in court trying to clear my name when I was the actual victim of a hit and run while on my mc.
I ended up with injuries which I don’t discuss (they’re traumatic for anyone to read), and a generous helping of PTSD on top of the decades of PTSD events experienced earlier due to circumstances that led to me leaving the country to preserve my safety.
I’m having ‘one of those nights’ where nothing lets me fall asleep without the thud of PTSD crashing through my body and almost shaking the bed so much it sways. Then - as I’m sure you know - I’m wide awake again, experiencing sensations of memory in every cell of my body that I wouldn’t wish upon anyone.
This’ll likely keep me awake for a few days - as it usually does when this happens - but I’ll get back to the usual routine after that (which is a few days of around 2-3 hours sleep, then one of 5-6 hours, then a few of 2-3..and so on).
I’m used to it I guess… it’s been 23 years since I was bodily in moving traffic, and at times like this, it feels like it was just moments ago.
This alone I have been informed by MH practitioners is way too much for them to understand or ‘work’ with - it’s pretty much too much trauma for their work parameters - without including what has happened to me before or after that, so I have been repeatedly declined MH services over the last 45 years because apparently what I have seen doesn’t compute with MH practitioners (I had one very experienced pain therapist and author in the field that limited my conversations to discussing pain only, and when I mentioned some of the pain I had experienced, she started crying and asked me to leave because she wanted to cater to her own mental health - so I left… I couldn’t blame her; I’m sure she wasn’t prepared to hear about some pain that would seem unfathomable and unimaginable unless someone tells you about it).
As a result, I don’t sleep well, I don’t dream well, and I don’t feel well about 50% of the time, however I choose to not let this utter mess I have been left with dominate my life 🙂💜

I am bigger than what has been inflicted upon me, and I always will be ☺️🙌🏻

even though, tonight is turning into today, and I’ll have a few days of this till I can rest again.
There are more of us out there, and I’m one of them 🙂🌺

The reason I mention it is to kindly let you know you’re not alone, so please don’t feel so ‘alien’ in your experiences and the resultant rejection from systems that have a relatively narrow scope and ability to assist 💜🌺

🦩