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Dealing with heartbreak

Dealing with heartbreak

It has been a year since I lost a person in my life who meant a lot to me.

Over the course of 2 years I developed strong feelings for someone, whom I felt I had a real emotional connection with. I was struggling with life, and they really cared for me and helped brighten my mood. I developed feelings for them, and wanted to prove I was worthy, and not a waste of time. I thought my feelings didn’t exist anymore, but their caring manner and a bright smile gave me a warm feeling, and I started to feel better and more confident in myself. Then they suddenly left me, and I question my feelings and if they were real. I have missed her every day for a year, and the thoughts that she didn’t feel for me really hurts. I have been in a dark place, and now realise I need to find myself. The fact that I now feel such pain is really hard to deal with though and I can’t get over it.

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Hi @tyme

It is nearly 2 years now. She left her role though, so would it still apply?

Don't know how we will ever catch up, or if she would want to. I’m sure she has moved on. 🥲

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I think it would still apply @Rockdog . Go slow to go far. Don’t rush it. The best things are worth the wait, eh?

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Hi @tyme

Yeah, I will wait forever 😊

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I'm going through a similar thing

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Hi @Naz1234

hope you are going ok. I know it is so hard isn’t it.

What has been happening with you?

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Hi @tyme

Hope you are well. Are you on holiday yet? You really do think she has the same feelings don’t you? The way things have changed a bit makes me feel like things are maybe meant to be. 🥰

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Sorry to hear things are tough @Naz1234 . I hope you find that you are not alone in your situation. Heartbreaks are painful. The waiting game is painful. But in the end, if you get what you are looking for, then it'll be worth it, right?

I'd love to chat to you too @Naz1234 🙂

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Hi @tyme

She is still working at the same place, just practicing in a different role. I think that might mean that things were real or she wouldn’t have done what she has done. I’m holding onto hope for the future, but trying to get sorted to be ready 😊

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Hrmmmm @Rockdog . I wonder why she's in a different role but in the same place.... interesting. Unless it's a promotion...

Who knows?

Just keep looking forward. At least things are moving 🙂 It's worth the wait. It's worth your patience. So excited for you.

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Hi @tyme

Yeah I don’t know, but I do think that things affected her as well. Apparently she only sees females now, and to deal with women’s issues. She isn’t in the same capacity so I think maybe it was real and she got smacked as well. This could be a bit crazy but I feel that some of the things she said were real. As you know I have had a long battle with this issue. Your belief has kept me going, now I just need to work on being a better me. I feel like that journey has started 😊

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