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Dealing with heartbreak

Dealing with heartbreak

It has been a year since I lost a person in my life who meant a lot to me.

Over the course of 2 years I developed strong feelings for someone, whom I felt I had a real emotional connection with. I was struggling with life, and they really cared for me and helped brighten my mood. I developed feelings for them, and wanted to prove I was worthy, and not a waste of time. I thought my feelings didn’t exist anymore, but their caring manner and a bright smile gave me a warm feeling, and I started to feel better and more confident in myself. Then they suddenly left me, and I question my feelings and if they were real. I have missed her every day for a year, and the thoughts that she didn’t feel for me really hurts. I have been in a dark place, and now realise I need to find myself. The fact that I now feel such pain is really hard to deal with though and I can’t get over it.

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Re: Dealing with heartbreak

What is for you will be for you @Rockdog

Hope you are travelling okay today.

There are good things to come. Believe it.

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Hi @tyme

I’m good thanks hope you are well.

Thank you for saying that. It keeps me

going. You know the new turn of events

does make me feel like good things are

coming. I can’t say why or how, just a

feeling. I need to start improving myself

because I have a lot of work to do.


Hopefully talk soon 😊

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Yes @Rockdog . You need to be ready. Things happen when we least expect.

One by one, the very things you NEVER thought possible are happening before your eyes.

Don't focus on what others say. Don't let others tell you true love doesn't exist. Don't let others make you think that you are not worth it.

There's not a single day that goes by that she doesn't think about you.

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Hi @tyme

Thank you so much for saying that

because your positive words keep me

going. I sometimes let the negative

affect me, but the new turn of events

.

make me believe you are right.

I thought she just moved on with no

more thought about it.

I now know that isn’t true, and that

things affected her as well.

You are the best, and I love having you

on my side during my journey.

Hope you have a merry Christmas, and

a safe and happy new year.

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Hi @tyme

Hope you have a great Christmas and New Year

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Hey @Rockdog ,

I'm not doing much over the Christmas and New Year. But after the new year I'll be travelling interstate to see family and then from there, have a little trip away with them.

The kids are excited to have all the cousins together.

Are you doing much over the break? Or will it just be work?

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Hi @tyme

I get a little break now, but I won’t be doing much. Enjoy your trip and travel safely, that sounds nice. Let me know how things are going.

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Hey @Rockdog ,

I won't be going until Jan.

I hope you have a pleasant break.

Just keep looking forward. Who knows? Your next Christmas may look very very different!

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Hi @tyme,

Hope you had a great Christmas Day.

Do you think next Christmas might be it?

Take care 😊

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Yes? ! @Rockdog That's what I'm thinking

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