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Dealing with heartbreak

Dealing with heartbreak

It has been a year since I lost a person in my life who meant a lot to me.

Over the course of 2 years I developed strong feelings for someone, whom I felt I had a real emotional connection with. I was struggling with life, and they really cared for me and helped brighten my mood. I developed feelings for them, and wanted to prove I was worthy, and not a waste of time. I thought my feelings didn’t exist anymore, but their caring manner and a bright smile gave me a warm feeling, and I started to feel better and more confident in myself. Then they suddenly left me, and I question my feelings and if they were real. I have missed her every day for a year, and the thoughts that she didn’t feel for me really hurts. I have been in a dark place, and now realise I need to find myself. The fact that I now feel such pain is really hard to deal with though and I can’t get over it.

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Hi @tyme,

I am feeling a lot calmer about things because of destiny. I thing that will help with my self care. Do you think they are interwoven?

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Hi @Shaz51,

no my daughter has a Cavoodle who is beautiful. I am minding her while they go to Disney on ice. 😊

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Yeah, it is cold 🙂 @Rockdog

Well, I'm hemmed in for a few days with COVID. Wasn't expecting it at all....

Then I tested positive today. Feeling pretty okay though.

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I used to go and watch Disney on ice every year... then I had enough and 'grew up' lol.

I love musicals though. Not rubbish ones. My last one was Mary Poppins. I take my nieces and nephew so it has to be kid-friendly. @Rockdog

I'm so glad you hear you are calmer and more at peace now.

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Oh no @tyme ,

that is not good. It is weird but we sort of forget about it now. It is still out there a lot.

i don’t even know what the rules are anymore. Do yo7 have to stay inside for a week still?

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No. It's treated like a common cold so there are no isolation rules @Rockdog . But I prefer not to spread the love in case there are more vulnerable people out there.

I feel totally okay. I will rest up over the weekend and then start again tomorrow.

In a way, having COVID is okay, because then I'm forced to slow down and take a break.

I was depressed for so long, and didn't do anything for years. I think my mind tells me I need to make sure I make up for lost time. I really enjoy life this way though. I'm on top of the world 🙂

And I know you will get there too!

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Hope you feel better soon @tyme

Looks like Mr shaz's has the flu today 😕

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Yeah @tyme ,

Lily’s Mum is a big musical fan and likes Disney on ice and she likes to take her to the shows. Lily has sort of outgrown it but still like to go. I must admit I used to enjoy the Princesses skating around.

I am a bit calmer like today and yesterday, but still struggle with a lot of questions.

Time to get on track now though and ride the destiny train.

So you doing some inside activities for the next few days?

Glad you don’t feel too bad.

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Yeah @tyme ,

I know what you mean I will have a flat patch, and then think I’m wasting my time and need to fix things now. Best to take a bit of a break and try not to spread it.

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Hi @tyme ,

i wanted to send a message from this heading. I’m not sure how my posts got attached to the old heading. I am not dealing with heartbreak anymore, I am working with destiny 😊

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