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Dealing with heartbreak

Dealing with heartbreak

It has been a year since I lost a person in my life who meant a lot to me.

Over the course of 2 years I developed strong feelings for someone, whom I felt I had a real emotional connection with. I was struggling with life, and they really cared for me and helped brighten my mood. I developed feelings for them, and wanted to prove I was worthy, and not a waste of time. I thought my feelings didn’t exist anymore, but their caring manner and a bright smile gave me a warm feeling, and I started to feel better and more confident in myself. Then they suddenly left me, and I question my feelings and if they were real. I have missed her every day for a year, and the thoughts that she didn’t feel for me really hurts. I have been in a dark place, and now realise I need to find myself. The fact that I now feel such pain is really hard to deal with though and I can’t get over it.

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YIkes @Rockdog !

Things are moving! I've got a grin on my face from ear to ear. I'm not saying, "I told you so", but you know what I mean.

Things may not move in our time, but they surely move.

I saw you online the other day, and then I got side tracked. Sorry!

Please keep me updated with how you are going.

I'll wait to hear from you.

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I see you are online @Rockdog . Hope you are okay.

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Hi @tyme

things have been a bit weird, nothing has happened yet but my person has shifted job titles. A friend at work looked her up. Not sure what that means exactly but I do feel it is the universe moving things. I would like to be able to talk to you more. I was thinking of you after and that I wished I could tell you. Still don’t know how it helps things work, but it gives me hope that she hasn’t just moved on

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Hi @tyme

hope you are going well

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I'm very well. Glad to hear that things are shifting. The universe moves in ways we know not. @Rockdog

While there is breath, there is hope. Whether it's shifting titles, jobs, places, houses, or whatever, it means that they wanted something to change.

Just hold on 🙂

I'll message you tomorrow.

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Hi @tyme

Thanks for reaching out and being part of my journey. I don’t know whether she actually has feelings, or has moved on or where she is at. I just now know that she wasn’t happy, like you said. I can’t make sense of it, but it has sort of reassured me that we were in it together and it wasn’t her. Also like you said outside forces messed with things.

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Precisely 🙂 @Rockdog

Slowly but surely.

Patience is a virtue 🙂

I'll catchya tomorrow.

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Hey @Rockdog ,

How are you today?

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Hi @tyme I’m good today thanks. How are you going? I’m still not sure how things will work out, but I just feel that something strange is happening. I can’t explain it, but you had been telling me for months. I think I would have given up without you. Now in a weird way I see it 😊

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Hey @Rockdog ,

I have faith even at times when you've lost faith.

That's why people need each other. We need each other to grow, learn, thrive and survive 🙂

People need people. We are born social creatures whether we like it or not.

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