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Dealing with heartbreak

Dealing with heartbreak

It has been a year since I lost a person in my life who meant a lot to me.

Over the course of 2 years I developed strong feelings for someone, whom I felt I had a real emotional connection with. I was struggling with life, and they really cared for me and helped brighten my mood. I developed feelings for them, and wanted to prove I was worthy, and not a waste of time. I thought my feelings didn’t exist anymore, but their caring manner and a bright smile gave me a warm feeling, and I started to feel better and more confident in myself. Then they suddenly left me, and I question my feelings and if they were real. I have missed her every day for a year, and the thoughts that she didn’t feel for me really hurts. I have been in a dark place, and now realise I need to find myself. The fact that I now feel such pain is really hard to deal with though and I can’t get over it.

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Things will always work out @Rockdog .

Allow yourself to recover. As I've mentioned before, recovery is an active process. You actually have to work hard at it.

For me, I had to push myself to do all the things I preferred not to do such as going out, shopping, talking to people, make phone calls, forgiving people, not hold grudges etc...

It was hard work, but it pays off - seriously.

Keep working at it. There's no time to lose.

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Hey @tyme ,

that sounds like a really great weekend. Sounds really nice.

I need to start doing things to get on track.

i wouldn’t mind getting away for a bit.

After the incident I had a good picture of things. Now I’m thinking maybe it was nothing. Nobody else understands, but it is going to work out isn’t it? You are the only one tha5 does t think I’m crazy.

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@tyme ,

that is what worries me. There is no time to lose but I am losing it and that gives me more anxiety. It was real wasn’t it? I’m not sure if she really cares. Her look was cold then I got a cute wave. I think it was real but then wonder if I am going crazy.

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YOU need to know deep down that things will work out @Rockdog . It's YOUR story. YOU need to write it. Believe in yourself.

"You have to love yourself first".... remember this.

Anyway, I have to go now, but I'll see you Sunday on the live chat.

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Night @tyme,

yeah I have sort of lost track. I’m not sure it will now.

Anyway thanks for the chat night night

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@tyme , I guess at the moment I don’t really believe in anything good working out.

I have moments where I do but then they go away. At the moment having you believe help me believe. I am struggling to hold on to the hope

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Why are you doubting @Rockdog ? Doubting Thomas?

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Hi @tyme,

I am a doubting Thomas. It is so weird because sometimes it feels real and sometimes I feel so low I can’t see anything happening. I couldn’t believe how lucky I was having her there.Then it fell apart. Deep downI think it is real but then I do doubt myself.

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Hi @tyme ,

hope you are going well. With everything that happened it right to believe it isn’t it? I still do

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As long as you do, then yes, you are right @Rockdog .

Hope and belief must come from YOU.

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