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Any Ideas Would Be Helpful / Not sure where to look / Too many Unknowns/ Im Very Concerned where are you?

LostAngelSenior Contributor22 July 2023, 7:43 pm AEST

Any Ideas Would Be Helpful / Not sure where to look / Too many Unknowns/ Im Very Concerned where are you?

Hi Friends its Lost Angel Im dealing with something alone its making me sad,concerned and down but am safe however what the hack do I do ? I havnt heard from my Romantic Long Distance Partner for Three Days and hes not online and this is so not like him and hes had recent medical issues of Appendix nature ,and now I cant contact him directly theres no responce,I rang countless hospitals last night and Lifeline and cried on and off and worried over and over and tried to think of ways to find him ,Ring his local Police to do a wellfare check? Ive even tried to search Public Records Online and Even Death Notices in his Local Paper ,How on earth do you find someone when you cant get a direct response,and no unfortunetly I dont hnow his family Members phone numbers , or contact info and I dont Know Which Hospital he could Potentiallly be in and no I dont know the name of his docter,Ill be having to call hospitals again tonight , I just want to know hes safe and ok and if not then what exactly is going on but as time passes I fear I may not know and potentially not hear from him again ,if he had his phone with him and was able to reach me he would have already done so by now its been 3 whole days or 36 since Ive heard from him,and ouur last conversation was normal,no argueing or anything like that,what if hes stuck in a hospital somewhere or worse and I cant find out that hes safe or not ? its already been too long,Ive sent roughly 15 meassgaes and called at least 5 times and still heard no response back,pluss all messages are going to unread

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BowSenior Contributor22 July 2023, 8:48 pm AEST

Re: Any Ideas Would Be Helpful / Not sure where to look / Too many Unknowns/ Im Very Concerned where are you?

I had a friend once. Met her online but we had met up a few times irl. There were a few of us that were concerned about her because none of us had heard from her in a while- I can’t remember how long exactly. I ended up going down to my local police station and expressing our concern and they went and did a welfare check. I think it was the following day, I sadly got a phone call that she had passed away in her sleep- brain aneurysm- she lived alone and hadn’t turned up for work. The folks that she worked for went to check on her and found her. I still remember that day clearly. I remember the phone call. The sadness. But also the disbelief. She had lead so many of us to believe she was a certain age, but she was much older. Guess ya have to be careful with who you meet.

if your concerned you could get police to do a welfare check @LostAngel i hope it all turns out ok.

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