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Sht! What now....

Sht! What now....

Tw - mention of truma and sexaul assault.

So, I finally got up the courage to block him. It only took three months.

This was only 2 hours ago...

Now he's found my art site. Fck. He just sent me a message on that.

I can't get away from him.

Wtf do I do?

Context: 3 months ago I invited an old friend over from Tasmania to celebrate my birth. Not only did he make me pay for everything and do nothing but complain. He used me sexyally. I don't want to call it rape, but I didn't want IT.

Context before this context: half the reason I moved to WA was because of him, I blame myself for what happened at my birthday because I know he was toxic and not to be trusted, but he was my first best friend, despite the fact we hadn't been close in a long time.

I should have known better. I was expecting something like this after blocking him but why......

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Re: Sht! What now....

Oh no! Really sorry to hear this, @The-red-centaur ! 😢

Can you delete any messages he sends you on your art site straight away? If you don't reply to him there, he will eventually give up messaging you hopefully...

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I can't delete them @NatureLover

It's made me so messed up.

I just wrote a message to his sister, hopefully he listens to her.

I can't deal with him. I don't know how to verbalise how he makes me feel, but he betrayed my trust that I'm so shattered and hopeless.

I was in the best mental state just before my birthday, now I'm the worst I've been in years and don't know how to get back there.

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That sounds horrible I'm so sorry @The-red-centaur


Assuming the site is public and not self-hosted/managed there should be a support/abuse email you can contact to take down his messages and/or account.

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@Former-Member it's a professional Facebook page. I blocked him on that afterwards, but you can't get rid of messages on professional pages.

The nurses refused to chat to me last night, I was so overwhelmed. I barely slept again.

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@The-red-centauroh wow what an awful feature 😕

I'm sorry you had such a tough night, I had a pretty tough one myself. I hope todays better and maybe you can get some rest.

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Save everything in case you need to give it to the police.
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