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Loosing my Patience /tired of being needed

Loosing my Patience /tired of being needed

First off I am safe , secondly need to rant so pardaon the rant please for f##k sake s today was frustrating I was trying to keep myself calm but was driving around for too long ,doing school pick up and dealing with a said person I was suposebly helping today with said school pick up and was dealing with traffic and this said person constantly chatting in the car all I could hear was blah blah blah by the end of it sometimes being too needed is not the best thing cause frankly it depletes your enegy trying to keep your patience as you are stressed at people for their constant nagging and need of your transport services and yeah am just plain over it now ,I must be too Bl$$dy nice but after after two days of school pick up for their child and dealing with the adult parent who just wouldnt shutup as Im trying to concentrate on driving phew Im over it I am not doing any more driving errands or transportation for said person next time they ask the answer is no no no ,now I need time for self ,not to mention my romantic partner is going through something very stressfull and Im trying to support him through that ,hes got a health scare oh what a week and its only tuesday and I am so sick also of having to shop everyday and spend money for the everyday and yet that money for food and stuff doesnt seem to get you alot of value for said price ah The Joys of Increases to the cost of living this girl needs a break so sorry to dissapoint anyone else but Im gonna take off to somehwere quiet tomorow to get some peace for at least a few hours that should help but am still stressed about partners health scare yikes ok rant over tonights dinner will most definetly be takeout

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Re: Loosing my Patience /tired of being needed

Ooooh, @LostAngel

That sounds like. a lot!

Thank you for letting us know you're safe, much appreciated!

I do hope you can engage in some nice self-care tonight. That take-out sounds like a really good start.❤️

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Re: Loosing my Patience /tired of being needed

Hi @LostAngel

Thank you for sharing about what's been going on for you 💛 :yellow_heart

It sounds like you are trying to juggle through it all!!

I can really resonate with this.. sometimes being too needed depletes your energy trying to keep your patience.. Oh how I feel this. I care for my young siblings and my parents, so much emotional availability and transport services needed from me!! I can never take a break.. but a break and a few hours of quiet is exactly what is needed sometimes.

It's so nice that you can notice your needs and the need to say no. I support you in taking care of yourself. Takeout and some quiet time tomorrow sounds bliss!

I hope you can find time for yourself amongst it, and I hope your partner will have the healing they need.

Sending you so much gentle and fluffy light to get through this,

fluffylight x

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Re: Loosing my Patience /tired of being needed

thank you Both @fluffylight and @hanami much apreciated as it stands now Theres been some self care But more so today than last night as I slept in till all most lunchtime 12pm, todays Self Care so far has been to enjoy a Nice Shower,teeth finally brushed this week, nice clean clothing, taking my time instead of feeling rushed, had some leftover chicken for lunch,staying hydrated so far,and just ate two cupcakes after lunch, The weather is warm and sunshiney thankfully,Its the little things that make a difference as for my Partner however where both going through the stress of his health but we are going through it together communicating very I would say honest clear and Sincere with eachother which Im gratefull for , as for the rest of today its an open book which I will take the oppertunity to write in at a even steady pace without being rushed, It actually might be a nice day for a walk outdoors, or visit people who have a calming pressence rather than stressfull pressence about them,in short today Ill follow my intuition wherever it takes me thanks so much for being a support in time of stress maybe just maybe some of fluffy lights energy has been shared ,thank you for that calming reasurance today is atleast that bit better in perspective to yesterday

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Re: Loosing my Patience /tired of being needed

Hello and sending you lots of @LostAngel xoxo

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