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My Place

My Place

Hi guys,

I just wanted to have a thread where I could talk about things that make me happy without bothering anyone else.

So on Sunday a week ago I planted some seeds into a metal tub. Some veggie seeds. Carrots, garlic chives and although it’s not the season for it I threw in some cucumber seeds.

Well yesterday, only a week after planting I noticed my first little green shoot. Then today, there are a bunch of green shoots. Funnily enough I think it’s the cucumbers that have come up first. I may have to make a cloche to help them grow in the cooler weather. The tub is sitting on a concrete path so hopefully that will help keep the soil a bit warmer. I moved them a bit more into the sunshine today as we noticed that the carport was casting shade on them quite early in the afternoon.

I am so happy to see their green little faces pushing up from under that dark earth. Gives me hope in all things. I love to watch things grow. It makes me happy to think that I have played a part in that.

Every day I water them and have a chat with them. How are you today my seeds? I hope that you will grow soon! Now I can encourage them to grow bigger and stronger.

I can’t wait to set up my other veggie garden and grow more things. I am especially looking forward to planting my tomatoes come spring.

@tonys

Meggle

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@Oaktree Thanks, I hope I'll be around the forum for a while longer as well. The chance of remission is long gone, but with a bit of luck it can be held back for quite a while before I'm in real trouble. You'll have put up with me a while longer 😊

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@MJG017


now you have me worrying about your long term health. I will put you down for prayers. I am glad that you will be around a while! You have become a good friend

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Your story is astounding @MJG017 . Thank you for trusting the community with your story.

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Hi @Oaktree how are you we spent most of the afternoon in the garden today

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@Oaktree @tyme

Thank you to you both. I dont mind talking about it and sharing what's going on. Ive become used to talking about it with all the awareness and support work, with other people and even the media. So i'm happy to talk about it with anyone, I just dont mention it unless I think its relevant because I know a lot of people find it a very difficult subject. If anyone does have any questions or wants to talk about it in any way, I'm more than happy to talk about it.

As for me, well the current drugs are working very well, but none of them work forever. One fails, you move on to the next one, but there's only so many treatments available and ive already burned through the main ones. The major one failing being found last December which Ive talked about as being the hardest time in my life. But I'm still here, and now with a strong passion to do whatever I can to help people going through their own tough times. One that I'm sure I want to spend as long as I can pursuing. Plus i've meet a lot of fantastic people and made some good friends over this year, so there has been a silver lining. There's men in our support group who are far more advanced that i am, and still feeling good after battling it for 5 or 6 years so there's always hope while there's options still available.

So thank you for the prayers, I appreciate the kind thoughts from a friend.

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Thanks for sharing @MJG017 . How inspirational @MJG017 . It's such an honour to hear your story and the fact that you want to use it to support those around you.

We will certainly keep you in our prayers.

See you on the hangout tonight.

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Hi @Oaktree

I just wanted to let you know that I apologise for how I responded to many of your posts last weekend and the strong reaction I had towards you, I’m not making excuses but I can’t work out why i was triggered, that is something for me to work out and nothing you did wrong, I’m sorry for behaving that way towards you and making you feel bad

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@ArraDreaming

Thank you for apologising. I do realise that people on the forums are in various emotional states. Whilst I try not to take it personally it leaves me being unsure around interacting with you. Basically I am unsure of which you I am going to get. It raised something for me too that I am going to work through with my psychologist.
Just to put your mind at ease, I accept your apology and really appreciate it

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@ArraDreaming

This thread is my safe place and something I created to put things that make me happy

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I know, which is why I am sorry @Oaktree because that’s not fair for someone to come into your safe space and make you feel bad
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