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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
Hey all,
I keep losing myself, I recently lost a family member to cancer and had the funeral and have been struggling for a few weeks while grieving and dealing with a few other things in my life,
I just don’t know how to help myself while im stuck in this loop. I have a lot of other stuff on my plate that I’m trying to manage and was just trying to find a space to where I can express it.
im safe
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SnowieSenior Contributor
Hi @Fluttershy1
Sorry things got to that point.
I'm glad you are back at home and are safe.
Thinking of you 💌💌
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
Had to go back to hospital @Snowie @Shaz51 @Jynx @hanami - my heart decided to go into very tachycardia the morning, being in an ambulance with lights is scary when it’s for yourself.
I’m safe
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hanamiSenior Contributor
Oh @Fluttershy1
you poor thing! Do you know caused it? Are you still in hospital? I'm glad you're safe but do take care. And please let us know how you are going.
Sending healing vibes your way.x
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
Nope they sent me home @hanami - nope don’t know the cause.
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hanamiSenior Contributor
How are you feeling now? @Fluttershy1
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
Not that flash hot @hanami - got the shakes
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hanamiSenior Contributor
I hope you start feeling better soon @Fluttershy1
Do you have a plan in case you feel worse again?
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
Go back to ED if needed @hanami - feeling very overwhelmed
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hanamiSenior Contributor
Hugs to you @Fluttershy1
We are here for you.
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SnowieSenior Contributor
Sory to hear the news @Fluttershy1 Glad you are home and safe now.
I hope you can rest a bit.
Sending lots of hugs 💜💜
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