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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
Hey all,
I keep losing myself, I recently lost a family member to cancer and had the funeral and have been struggling for a few weeks while grieving and dealing with a few other things in my life,
I just don’t know how to help myself while im stuck in this loop. I have a lot of other stuff on my plate that I’m trying to manage and was just trying to find a space to where I can express it.
im safe
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JynxModerator
@Fluttershy1 Aww nice one!! Coldplay concert is bound to be quite the spectacle!
Could be something you also utilise to help you remind yourself to keep going 😊
Says she doesn't need them and yet relies on you entirely? Could it be worth having a very tough but firm conversation about your needs? Maybe highlight that you deserve to have your own time and space, deserve to have your own life. Idk, be a tricky one for sure, but if carers are an option, might be worth exploring.
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JynxModerator
And bunnies!! @Fluttershy1 fur babies are always the best 🐰
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
@Jynx - found something for you hehehe
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JynxModerator
Haha love it @Fluttershy1 - I'll have to do another Ice Memery post this week!
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
Don’t forget to tag me @Jynx, I’d love to be tagged
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
Love the pencil quote @Fluttershy1
Cheered me up cos I am always using them and sharpening them. lol
Gentle Hugs too
Apple
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JynxModerator
Of course @Fluttershy1 I think you're in the tag list already but I will double check to make sure 😁
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
Ok cool, I like that place @Jynx
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
Hahahaha @Appleblossom - I’m the same!
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
@Jynx - how are the cats
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