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Kindness to ourselves goes a long way

Kindness to ourselves goes a long way

Sometimes, I look at all these threads and peruse quite a few of them and then feel overwhelmed. It’s very sad what a lot of us go through. But I just hope that many people on these forums can get the support that they need, whether that’s therapists, medication, family and friends, communication and self-help. It can be terrifying to trust yourself sometimes when it is all so frightening and we do need help a lot of the time but we can do some things on our own which we’d never even dared to hope to do. I mean, self-help: using the resources and strengths within to sit patiently through the storm and encourage ourselves, self-soothe and be kind and gentle to ourselves. There are times of crises, I’ve been through plenty, but there are also opportunities when you can slow down and love yourself. I think growing up, we all think we’ve had to be hard on ourselves to achieve and survive. But truly, kindness to ourselves can be the best of friends.

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I was talking to a friend last night and I told her to do at least one thing for herself every day to be kind to herself and take some time to just have a cup of coffee and sit there and just reflect take 15 mins out of her day to just sit and be. Be kind to herself and love herself. A way you can be kind to yourself is to set one thing that you want to do every day and stick to it you can write your own life bit by bit by setting one thing that’s the way you can create your future don’t say I wonder what tomorrow holds instead say tomorrow I’m going to do this. This is what I want to do in my day and my life and you’ll start to create a life for yourself that you want. Love yourself.

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