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Feeling braver

SirineSenior Contributor07 Jan 2023, 11:50 am AEDT

Feeling braver

hi to all those that have supported me just a quick note to let you know I’m feeling braver now where my flatmate is concerned. Am taking a peace and good behaviour bond against her and the realestate are on my side. She has now abused my sister in law who has called the agent and let her know. Wish I could afford security cameras to put in the house.
I am feeling more positive with all the help I am receiving and for you guys too.

Have a wonderful weekend xxx

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Shaz51Senior Contributor07 Jan 2023, 1:45 pm AEDT

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Thank you for the update @Sirine

Been thinking of how you are going ❤

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SirineSenior Contributor07 Jan 2023, 2:12 pm AEDT

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@Shaz51 @Thanks for thinking of me hun. It’s still scary but I have some tools to use now. I see my therapist Monday as well.

big hugs 🫂 xx

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BPDSurvivorSenior Contributor07 Jan 2023, 11:27 pm AEDT

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Thank you for the update @Sirine . It’s so good to hear that you feel braver and better equipped. Good on you!

Im cheering you on.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor08 Jan 2023, 7:24 am AEDT

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That's good news, @Sirine ...hoping your flatmate gets the message and moves out soon...

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BPDSurvivorSenior Contributor09 Jan 2023, 6:20 pm AEDT

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How are you @Sirine ?

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SirineSenior Contributor09 Jan 2023, 6:50 pm AEDT

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@BPDSurvivor @Hi hun I have good news the flatmate from hell is being evicted yay!!!!! Not sure if it’s immediate or I’ll have to put up with her for a few days but she’s going. She pulled my fairy lights to pieces last night so when I spoke to agent she said nah you don’t destroy peoples stuff so the hell flatmate gets her marching orders tomorrow. I’m a little worried about repercussions but there is a rainbow at the end of the road. Hopefully now I can find some peace, heal and eventually find someone on my level.

how’s things with you

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tymeModerator09 Jan 2023, 7:35 pm AEDT

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Good to hear things are moving @Sirine ! Hope all goes well!

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SirineSenior Contributor10 Jan 2023, 9:04 am AEDT

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@tyme @Hey hun sounds like you’ve had lots on your plate too. The idea of another flatmate is scary but am putting it to the universe that I get a nice one am so over being abused. Maybe they will let me stay here alone, that would be heaven.

as for flatmate from hell she should get her eviction letter today so let’s see what happens it will most likely be my fault.

glad you got the house sorted no point paying double.

big hugs 🫂 xx

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