Enough

Hi 👋 first time user. I honestly feel I’ve had enough staying with my husband. It’s been difficult thru our marriage for 16 years. He has been abusive and aggressive since I’ve known him. I feel I’ve tried so hard for the kids but i have had enough. I really need my space at the moment. I believe he has depression and anxiety and possible narcissistic personality disorder. He wants to be in control of my relationships with my family and friends. I feel I don’t have the flexibility to visit them because every time I do he makes me feel guilty. He makes himself the victim and tries to gaslight me or the kids. I’m exhausted dealing him because I need to be so careful with the way I say things for him not to get upset….toxic toxic toxic