ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
I just feel so sad
I don’t know
I just feel so sad
i started to go through some things at mums house today
i didnt feel anything until I started driving home
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
I don’t know
I just feel so sad
i started to go through some things at mums house today
i didnt feel anything until I started driving home
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Eve7Senior Contributor
You’re making sense @ArraDreaming
This is just early days for you and although time doesn’t heal our grief, you will need time to heal and it’s very much a process of highs and lows.
what you accomplished today was a huge achievement. Well done 💙
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
Thanks @Eve7 she kept things of mine that I thought dad burnt on the fire
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Eve7Senior Contributor
It must be comforting to know your possessions weren’t destroyed @ArraDreaming
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
comforting but confusing @Eve7
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Eve7Senior Contributor
I can understand that when you were led to believe otherwise @ArraDreaming
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
I didn’t think my mum valued anything of mine let alone enough to keep it for all this time, things like school certificates she’s got a whole box of that stuff, she didn’t really have Many thibgs so weird that she had all of that, also weird cause I remember my dad destroying a lot of those things when I got them @Eve7
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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Eve7Senior Contributor
Well, they’re your keepsakes now @ArraDreaming for you to treasure and share with your loved ones.
Now you know your mum wanted you close to her.
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
@Eve7 ❤️
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
She wanted me close to her just didn’t know how to show it @Eve7 ❤️
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