Topic Tuesday// Borderline Personality Disorder Awareness Week 2022: 'See The Person'// Tues 27th September 2022 7-8:30PM AEST

Hello @BPDSurvivor. @TideisTurning , @Alex_Spectrum , @Former-Member , @M_P90 , @Determined

@TideisTurning @M_P90 @puzzlingdino @Fluttershy1

Has stigma impacted seeking support. How did you deal with that?

Arghhh…stigma. Yes. Stigma is very much attached to BPD. I’ve felt it, I’ve heard about it, I’ve been told about it, and I’ve read about it.

I was once told by a mental health clinician that at their service, as soon as they see a diagnosis of BPD, they do not accept the client….hrm. That left me thinking. Aren’t these the people who regularly turn up emergency departments? Aren’t these the people who have active thoughts of suicide? Aren’t these some of the most vulnerable people that services SHOULD be helping?

and within the next day or two, I was discharged with no ongoing care or support. Why? Stigma.

Stigma stinks.

So how did I deal with it? Once again, I was one of the lucky ones. I was placed on a waitlist for a BPD clinic. I’m not sure how long I waited, but I was accepted. If anything, the clinic waited for me. I kept pushing my appointments off – I think I was anxious and I didn’t know what to expect?

Finally, I received a letter that if I didn’t engage, they’d take me off the list. That made me make an appointment. And this is where my recovery begins. I had to reach out and make the effort.

HI Mum @Shaz51 ! Great to have you!

Hi @Shaz51! Welcome, great to see you here 😊

@M_P90 I totally agree that it's important to be aware of the power imbalance inherent in a treatment relationship. Being reflective and aware is a really important part of good practice!

Hi @Fluttershy1 ,

As @Alex_Spectrum has mentioned in his post, he is one of those people who WANT to work with people with BPD!

And yes, there are others too!

Hi @Shaz51 great to have you!

Hi @kellee , @Abner

Do you have any questions you'd like to ask about this topic of BPD and 'See the Person'?

Given some of the other experiences it sounds like you've had with stigma around seeking treatment @BPDSurvivor , it is no wonder to me that you had some reluctance to engage when you were accepted for treatment. I'm so glad to hear you were linked in with a patient team who could offer you that patience, support and understanding you & everyone, deserves ❤️

Moving on to our next question: The theme of this year’s BPD Awareness Week is ‘see the person’. Why is that so important? @Alex_Spectrum @BPDSurvivor