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creative_writerSenior Contributor
I have been struggling a lot lately with suicidal thoughts. It’s become a daily occurrence and it’s been really overwhelming to cope. I am safe right but having to fight this is very exhausting. I feel so trapped, I am tired of living in pain, fear and shame. I feel like a burden to people and unimportant.
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Captain24Senior Contributor
Same @creative_writer . I am in this battle on my own. Other than the members on here.
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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Captain24Senior Contributor
I’m not sure how to do relationships either @creative_writer . That’s why I live on my own. Inalso struggle with friendships
I’m really not ok and would love someone just to hold me and tell me everything will be ok.
I can send you a virtual hug though.
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tymeModerator
Hey @creative_writer - I hear you. Sometimes, not speaking speaks louder than words.
Just a snuggle cuddle.... it can make all the difference.
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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FloatingFeatherSenior Contributor
Hi @creative_writer,
I really sorry to read you are feeling this way. I know that feeling of feeling alone despite being around people - it's not an easy way to be.
It's really good that you have gone through your safety plan so you don't have access. That takes a lot of strength - particularly when you are feeling such overwhelming feelings. It is great that you have a caring family and safe environment. You are lucky to have that but I also understand that sometimes all the support in the world may not be enough when those feelings come from within.
While SANE is here to support you as much as we can unfortunately, we are not a crisis centre. If you ever do need immediate support, please call:
- LifeLine on 13 11 14
- BeyondBlue on 1300 224 636
- Suicide Call Back Service on 1300 659 467
As mentioned above, while we are not a crisis centre, we are a place for support, safety and to share our lived experiences.
I will email you to check in your safety - please respond when you can.
Warm wishes,
FloatingFeather
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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FloatingFeatherSenior Contributor
I went through something very similar many years ago - it was one of the hardest times of my life. It was tiring trying to pretend to be happy when I was struggling so much alone so I feel like I can relate a little to how you feel. Those feelings did eventually pass with time, help from professionals, forcing myself to do things even when I didn't want to etc. Do you have someone you trust you can talk to about this? A good friend, GP etc?
Warm regards,
FloatingFeather
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
Help us push aside the stigma and discrimination surrounding complex mental health and change the way people talk about, and care for, mental illness.
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Help us push aside the stigma and discrimination surrounding complex mental health and change the way people talk about, and care for, mental illness.
SANE acknowledges the Traditional Owners of Country throughout Australia and recognises the continuing connection to lands, waters and communities. We pay our respect to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures; and to Elders past and present.
SANE values diversity. We are committed to providing a safe, culturally appropriate, and inclusive service for all people, regardless of their ethnicity, faith, disability, sexuality, or gender identity.
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