Connect with people who understand what you are going through, seek advice and surround yourself with support. We're free, anonymous, and professionally moderated 24/7.

47,612Members
1,358,869Posts
1,400,000Visitors

Career Chat // Feeling overwhelmed at work // Friday 14 Oct. 12 pm AEDT

NikNikSenior Contributor10 Oct 2016, 2:55 pm AEDT

Career Chat // Feeling overwhelmed at work // Friday 14 Oct. 12 pm AEDT

Hi everyone,

Regardless of whether you have a mental illness or not, at times work can be overwhelming. Dreaded deadlines, busy times of year and low staff numbers are just a couple of the factors that can contribute to work overwhelm.

This week @Renstar from Ostara Australia will host a discussion on what can cause work overwhelm and what can help to manage it.

Two things you can do now

1) Hit 'Like' below to get a reminder email on the day

2) Leave your question below if you can't make the session on Friday

28 replies

21 - 28 of 28

1 2 3

In response to: Career Chat // Feeling overwhelmed at work // Friday 14 Oct. 12 pm AEDT

KurraSenior Contributor14 Oct 2016, 3:18 pm AEDT

Re: Career Chat // Feeling overwhelmed at work // Friday 14 Oct. 12 pm AEDT

And Breathe @Renstar @Former-Member @Former-Member!

In response to: Career Chat // Feeling overwhelmed at work // Friday 14 Oct. 12 pm AEDT

RenstarSenior Contributor14 Oct 2016, 3:22 pm AEDT

Re: Career Chat // Feeling overwhelmed at work // Friday 14 Oct. 12 pm AEDT

Self talk ... Anyone do it? I mean the positive kind ... it's also great when you're hurting psychologically

I love this Ted talk by Guy Lynch it's indirectly related and has a great section on self talk ...

https://www.ted.com/talks/guy_winch_the_case_for_emotional_hygiene?language=en

In response to: Re: Career Chat // Feeling overwhelmed at work // Friday 14 Oct. 12 pm AEDT

RenstarSenior Contributor14 Oct 2016, 3:30 pm AEDT

Re: Career Chat // Feeling overwhelmed at work // Friday 14 Oct. 12 pm AEDT

Yes @Kurra totally yes, breathing ... let me tell you about the importance of breathing with intention ..

it is centering,

do it like this ... count 4 breathing in, hold for 2, breath out for 6 x 5 times.

It restores your para sympathetic systems ... See below

'The parasympathetic nervous system is one of three divisions of the autonomic nervous system. Sometimes called the rest and digest system, the parasympathetic system conserves energy as it slows the heart rate, increases intestinal and gland activity, and relaxes sphincter muscles in the gastrointestinal tract.'

Hmmmmm

In response to: Re: Career Chat // Feeling overwhelmed at work // Friday 14 Oct. 12 pm AEDT

Unknown userMember14 Oct 2016, 3:59 pm AEDT

Re: Career Chat // Feeling overwhelmed at work // Friday 14 Oct. 12 pm AEDT

@Renstar, I'm not sure if this is 'positive self talk'. But one thing I find helpful at work when I'm having super negative thoughts, is something my psycholgoist taught me- she got me to rationalise the negative thoughts and write them down. So instead of 'I'm a failure', I had a card with 'I am often successful e.g....' And having that card next to my computer so I could look at it each time I was stuck in my negative thoughts was helpful.

In response to: Career Chat // Feeling overwhelmed at work // Friday 14 Oct. 12 pm AEDT

RenstarSenior Contributor14 Oct 2016, 4:34 pm AEDT

Re: Career Chat // Feeling overwhelmed at work // Friday 14 Oct. 12 pm AEDT

Absolutely @Former-Member, this technique deals with NATs (negative automatic thoughts)

I think writing things down then reading them to engage you cognitively is perfect.
Awesome share thank you thank you !

In practice having the alternative thought written in front of you is ideal ... Whereas asking people to 'come up with' positive thoughts whilst they're IN THEIR NEGATIVE thinking state may not be as realistic...

Anyone else use this technique? 😊😊

In response to: Re: Career Chat // Feeling overwhelmed at work // Friday 14 Oct. 12 pm AEDT

RenstarSenior Contributor14 Oct 2016, 5:03 pm AEDT

Re: Career Chat // Feeling overwhelmed at work // Friday 14 Oct. 12 pm AEDT

Now that we have come to the end of today's forum I would like to sincerely thank @Former-Member@Kurra@Former-Member@BlueBay for all your contributions today ... I think we have made some great discoveries in regards to what works and what doesn't and for whom!

For those of us who enjoy mindfulness please use it at any time during the day when you're feeling overwhelmed make sure you find a quiet spot, take time to breathe, centre and reconnect with yourself/surroundings rather than your often distorted/intrusive thoughts

For those who prefer active/cognitive activities ... Do have things written down that remind you that your thoughts can have an alternative, more positive slant and take time to write a plan in the morning / during your day, including what you need to do also chunk down your tasks and consider the various activities that were suggested including meditation and recreation 😊😊

Finally - Have a fantastic weekend and catch up with you next Friday same time

In response to: Career Chat // Feeling overwhelmed at work // Friday 14 Oct. 12 pm AEDT

Unknown userMember22 Oct 2016, 7:02 am AEDT

Re: Career Chat // Feeling overwhelmed at work // Friday 14 Oct. 12 pm AEDT

Hi @NikNik and @Renstar

Can we do a session on reasonable adjustment? I'm still struggling to find a balance of work and down time and how I can incorporate that into a normal workday. Would be great. Thanks.

In response to: Career Chat // Feeling overwhelmed at work // Friday 14 Oct. 12 pm AEDT

Unknown userMember22 Oct 2016, 6:51 pm AEDT

Re: Career Chat // Feeling overwhelmed at work // Friday 14 Oct. 12 pm AEDT

@Former-Member - great idea!

21 - 28 of 28

1 2 3